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| Author: | Mentalistic [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 9:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The best/most confident way to suggest meeting up again? |
Ok so heres the situation. Long story short, got the number of someone I knew from years ago but hadnt spoken to in a long time. Text for a while. Met at a bar (sort of planned), I worked some alpha moves and left her company for a bit, had her follow me and initiate the kiss. From there she never left my side all night. I even left earlier than her and she rang to find out where I was to meet me outside. She was pretty drunk by the end of the night. Text the next day to apologise, saying she felt like an idiot, but she does remember making the moves on me and hasnt showed embarrassment about that. Now wer just txtin, general chat, findin more out about each other, asking each others plans for the day etc. I dont think the bar is an option this weekend (saving means low on funds), so what else do you think i should suggest and how to work it into the conversation? |
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| Author: | Tom_"Maybe" [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 9:52 pm ] |
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Best day 2 date is to tell the girl... "We're going to go somewhere special to me..." And go to the library and go through all the childrens books. This will trigger all the good emotions she felt as a child, and will open up conversation about her past, and it's a really good place to get quiet and whisper things to one another. There was one occasion where my date and myself actually read Clifford books to a group of children. That showed that I had a loving and caring side towards children, which all women look for. That most likely won't happen to you, but the possibilities are endless. Did I mention that it's completely free? GO DO IT! |
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| Author: | Bormad [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 10:00 pm ] |
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wow awesome tip. All that NLP stuff would work great there |
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| Author: | Tom_"Maybe" [ Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:42 am ] |
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At this point in the courtship there is nothing wrong with showing a bit of emotion towards her. It's natural to feel that way, so why not express it? Usually what I do is I'd be completely up front with her. I'd text her, or leave her a voicemail that says: "Hey, I just saw something that reminded me of you, so I thought I'd give you a text to see if you'd like to go somewhere with me to keep me company while I run a few errands. I've got to show you something anyway. Let me know." Simple...and that will link right into the... "We're going to go somewhere special to me..." Best way to come up with the reaction you're looking for in the woman is to WORK BACKWARDS. For example. You want her to call you back. What will that take? It takes being man enough to show emotion towards her. If she feels that emotion, and you don't display it in a needy or shallow way. Then chances are she'll call you back. Just try that out and see what happens. |
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