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| Author: | Ambiguous7 [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl asks 'You don't have my number anymore?'How to respond? |
Ok, I've studied PUA for a while, but I was in a LTR and kinda got away from it. I'm trying to get back in it. This girl I was talking to right after the LTR in the summer said she thought I was cute and we hung out a few times. I was being kinda needy since I was in a weird mood just getting out of a relationship. So basically I screwed it up and got the LJBF talk. But after this I just ignored her pretty much, but lately shes being giving me IOIs and trying to talk to me online. (I think this is because she barely knew me then, but lately I've had a lot of DHVs of other girls talking to me and pictures posted of me at parties) I've still been mostly neutral with her. Then, I mentioned online on a status update I lost everyone's phone number since I got a new phone, and she messages me "You don't have my number anymore?" What should I respond to this? |
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| Author: | DonPua [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 1:26 am ] |
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I would just reply with "Indeed.". She didn't like you when you were needy, well give her this nonneedy response. It tells her you lost her number but at the same time you show a lack of interest because you reply with only 1 word without any explanation. An AFC would start a whole topic and explain why he lost the number and all the bla bla bla. Guys that are always trying to explain in detail why they did something (bad) are not considered attractive. The nonneedy guys that show lack of interest are the attractive ones. |
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| Author: | Ambiguous7 [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 1:52 am ] |
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thanks Don. That makes sense. Before I read this I replied 'ya i lost everyones number' she replied back 'bummmer man' I wanted to convey disinterest. However, she has handed me a couple IOIs like saying I looked good a couple weeks ago, but I dunno where I'm at with her... |
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| Author: | DonPua [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 2:08 am ] |
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Quote: thanks Don. That makes sense. Before I read this I replied 'ya i lost everyones number'
I wouldn't ask for her number. I would just ignore her 'bummer man' reaction. Don't reply at it. Bigger disinterest is not possible. Next time you talk, talk about everything you want but don't ask for her number.
she replied back 'bummmer man' I wanted to convey disinterest. However, she has handed me a couple IOIs like saying I looked good a couple weeks ago, but I dunno where I'm at with her... |
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| Author: | Ambiguous7 [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 2:20 am ] |
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Thanks that makes sense. My friend is having a huge party this next Saturday and made me an admin for the party on facebook. I was thinkin about just sending her an invite halfway thru the week but not contacting her any other way and seeing how she responds. |
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| Author: | Sykko [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 9:55 am ] |
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Quote: Thanks that makes sense. My friend is having a huge party this next Saturday and made me an admin for the party on facebook. I was thinkin about just sending her an invite halfway thru the week but not contacting her any other way and seeing how she responds.
Yeah, make it look casual, like, you were sending invites to your friends.She might contact you after that, say something like " Oooh, I invited everyone from my friends list..." I would try Push/Pull with this one, probably will work, but you must kino escalate because you will be in risk of friendzone. |
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| Author: | jbrad [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 5:19 pm ] |
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This is a tough situation because as Don said, you must play disinterested. But the good part is, she seems pretty interested in you. I would in no cases outright ask for her number, but if you guys get a good connection going and you can make some plans with her that would be good grounds to say "send me your number" or in this case you could even tell her to text you later because you lost all your numbers. Chances are she'll wait a couple days to text you, but if she's into you it'll happen. |
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| Author: | Cindy_Baby [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 5:36 pm ] |
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Yea just be cool about it. Just tell her no you don't have her number in a casual way and see what happens from there. |
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| Author: | DonPua [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 8:21 pm ] |
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I would only ask her number on a date if she deserves it. If she shows a lot of IOI's towards when you are hanging out with her, then I would ask her number. (of course in a cool way) |
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