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| Author: | fox_theone [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 6:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is it wrong to take an AFC's girl? |
I'm having a bit of a moral dilemma. There's a HB8 with an AFC as far as I can tell. I haven't spoken to him but his body language screams AFC. He's always looking at the ground when walking, he carries the HB8's bag when they're walking even though it's really light etc. I feel bad for the guy because I was an AFC too. Should I still game the girlfriend? My conscience is acting up and I don't know what to do 
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| Author: | _Lothario_ [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 7:56 am ] |
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Think of this as you would a kiss. If you leave the kiss asking "should i have kissed her?" then you should have. |
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| Author: | 870 [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 4:02 pm ] |
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Women aren't property, and a board full of random other people on the internet can't define your ethics for you. There is no right or wrong, just the consequences of your actions. Your boy, 870 |
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| Author: | DonPua [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 5:55 pm ] |
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I used to be a nice guy that always cared for everyone else. But all my years of experience have learned me that I have to be more selfish. At the end, 99 % of the people you meet are plain b*st*rds; even the AFC's. In general I divide manhood in 3 types of men: 1. Those that care for nobody and will try to get women, also the ones that are taken. 2. Those that are scary chickens and do everything to get a woman. 3. Men that care for other people and would never steal someone's girlfriend but at the same time are no pushover and only do something for women whenever women deserve it. It is obvious that if I could steal the girl from the first type of men, I wouldn't hesitate at all. The second type is a big group full of losers which are responsible for women having more power in society than they should have. They are the ones sucking up to women and make women believe that they are better than the rest of the world. Those are the ones responsible that I often get into conflict with my sisters, aunts and nieces because they made all the women in my family believe that men should do whatever necessary to please the women. The guy you described falls into this category. So as punishment he deserves to get his girlfriend stolen. He f*cking carries her purse in order to please her !!! Those men are messing up the world. Steal those men's girlfriends whenever you can. At the other hand, his girlfriend is deliberately using her female power in order to control his guy. She thinks she has the right to use men as her personal slave. She needs to get punished too for not respecting her poor guy that only wants to see her happy. So I would destroy the relationship, use the woman and dump her coldly and harshly so she would realize again that she hasn't any more value than any other man on this planet. The third type of men are the good ones. Unfortunately there aren't many of them out there. I used to belong to this group. But because 99 % of men belong to the first 2 categories and they are messing up the dating environment, I live to punish the guys of the first 2 categories. |
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| Author: | Tom_"Maybe" [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 6:14 pm ] |
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I'd look and see more into the situation before I'd move in for the girl. If the girl is using the guy as a tool, then yes...I would take the girl from him, and ultimately dump the girl and cause her to think straight. And chances are the guy in the relationship will be freed from her power grip and would nonetheless be thankful in hine-sight. If they both show love towards one another, then I wouldn't do it. The guy most likely pulled the right moves for once, and landed a girl without him even realizing it. I'd go up to him, and say "You know how you bagged a 10 like that? You did this, and this and this right...just remember to do that next time you're searching for a woman." I don't think most people are bastards. Most people...normal people....would do anything in their power to do the right thing in their minds eye. It's only the fact that most people disagree about different situations that causes conflict. That's why, for the most part, I don't dabble in others peoples business. But in this scenario...I would. |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 6:44 pm ] |
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"An AFCs girl" ? She belongs to herself! Women are people too you know... Ezo |
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| Author: | Johnny B. [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 7:14 pm ] |
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Erica Jong: " Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't. " Dont try to justify your actions, you allready know the answer. [ Johnny B ] |
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| Author: | Sharplin [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 7:44 pm ] |
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Yeah, I think Johnny B put it best. You know what your ethics and morals tell you, stick to those. Morally, its wrong to game an AFC's girl and take her from him. It can be really hard to resist though. |
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| Author: | Herne [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 11:30 pm ] |
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I would agree with poster who described 99% of people as no good---im newish too all this--but could i suggest a test to see whether this guy might be in the other ok 1% bracket and if he is then walk away and leave them alone. Here goes walk up and start talking to both of them but more towards her--keep the subject neutral and give no hint that u have any agenda towards her at all---if he shows the slightest sign of Amog--ull know by his stance--he will adopt what he thinks as a dominant male pose--chest out feet splayed shuffling is legs in a bandy john wain stance---THEN hes another dickhead--Steal her--if hes pleasant and ok towards u then leave them b |
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| Author: | DonPua [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 11:49 pm ] |
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Well, you can also look at it from a different angle. If you try to get the girl and she dumps her current boyfriend for you, then tell me whether you want a girl like that as your girlfriend. She could easily dump you too for someone else once she had enough of you. So if a girl leaves the boyfriend for you, use her and dump her because no good will come from a girl like that. On the other hand, if she stays faithfull than it is a good girl but you won't be able to get anywhere with her. So the most logical conclusion is to try to get her. If you don't get her she is a good girl and you are unlucky to meet her at this particular moment in which she is dating someone already. If she leaves her guy for you she is evil and so you can use her and dump her. So yes, try to steal her. Not only are you doing a favour to yourself but also to the AFC and the society. |
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| Author: | Herne [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 12:34 am ] |
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If She turns out to be evil maybe AFC guy should be given few tips as a consolation without revealing to much--provided that he isnt an asshole |
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| Author: | Marlow [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 6:33 am ] |
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Moral issue. Messin with another dudes chick, given they are in a relationship, is wrong in my opinion. Not all share my moral views, however. |
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| Author: | DonPua [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 3:25 pm ] |
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Quote: Moral issue. Messin with another dudes chick, given they are in a relationship, is wrong in my opinion. Not all share my moral views, however.
Morally you are right. But when you are dating a chick other guys try to steal her too so why should I stick to my morals ? At the end 99.7899899987 % of the people are selfish b*stards anyway so why would I let a hot girl escape ? I don't do favours for selfish people and life has learned me that most of the people are just bloody selfish.
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| Author: | Herne [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 8:30 pm ] |
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Very true-if the situation was the other way more than likely 99.9% if he thought he could steal her from you he would |
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| Author: | bigimot [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 9:01 pm ] |
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so what exactly are you guys saying? since most people are bitches you should become one? I think it's very wrong to steal his gf just for the sake of doing so, it's like learning Kung Fu (or whatever) and then just go around the streets look for weak people and beat the shit ouf of them. You've got your tools, it doesn't mean you need to use them whenever you can to please yourself regardless of everybody else, not to mention it can cause you other problems, and it will. I'd just try to give a wake call to that AFC dude, hopefully he'll take it. Who knows you might steal his girl which is his entire life, get him in depression which will take years to recover from. Or god knows there're worst stuff that can happen and have already happened. Don't mess with people lifes like that, it's wrong on so many levels. You clearly don't care at all about that girl (not like you've been 'in-love' with her for years or wahtever) and you can throw up a rock and find another 3, do so then. |
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