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Author:  Spike007 [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 1:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Can something happen with this girl?
So I know a girl for about 5 weeks who have a boyfriend and she is engaged. Anyway, at first we were just friend but then I feel like something can happen between us. She txt me sometimes when she is with her boyfriend, then when I see her in my class she starts by talking how she cried because of her boyfriend and I change the subject subtly. Anyway last night she told me that her best friend told her to leave her boyfriend and just stay friend with him. I didn't answer something that can broke their couple, I just said that I don't like to be involved on that kind of situation.

Then she told me something that make me think that maybe she don't want something happen with me. She told me something like : "I can't think of leaving my boyfriend, not kiss him, not have sex with him".

Usually when she talks me about her boyfriend for a few seconds she never tell that kind of stuff...Did I just enter in the friend zone or she is looking to make her break up with her boyfriend?
Author:  sinsitive [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 1:48 pm ]
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Make sure you take some nice photo's of the zone u're in: friend zone.

Can something happen: Well in theory yes but don't count on it. And if it does: odds are she does it to forget her upcoming ex. As I see it they're doomed anyway. Give it some time and take a bit of distance if you don't want to come in her friend zone...

Good luck there, just count on too much...
Author:  BradW [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 2:36 pm ]
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From my experiences: Dont fuck with women in relationships.
Im 18 and have had many times people trying to beat the shit out of me for fucking there girl. You don't want to start having to look over your shoulder because you can't go out and find another girl.

Just my 2c worth
Author:  Spike007 [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 2:41 am ]
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Ok so obviously I am already in the friend zone...:( Can I "wait" there, I mean just continu to talk to her and maybe become a friend with benifit?? :P I see this girl 2 times/week in class, I can't take my distance we always sit together and we have fun in class.
Author:  toho.fuhai [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 5:55 pm ]
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i was in a situation sort of like that where i tried to stay and wait in friend zone. waiting will get you nothing dude. the girl isn't married and you don't owe him anything, so who cares if they break their engagement? the point here is that you want the girl. currently you are in friend zone so show some distance a bit. don't talk to her so much in class. don't be that emotional crutch. she'll notice and when she does you move in. if only i could take my own advice
Author:  tekryder [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 8:05 pm ]
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i was in a situation sort of like that where i tried to stay and wait in friend zone. waiting will get you nothing dude. the girl isn't married and you don't owe him anything, so who cares if they break their engagement? the point here is that you want the girl. currently you are in friend zone so show some distance a bit. don't talk to her so much in class. don't be that emotional crutch. she'll notice and when she does you move in. if only i could take my own advice
great advice. i kinda burned the bridge myself with my situation by tellin her i was gonna delete her from my contacts because if simular situation. i shoulda let it go and left it alone for a while and pop up.
Author:  Spike007 [ Sat Nov 14, 2009 10:20 pm ]
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Thank you for the advices. I just want to say that I don't "want" that girl and I have no emotionnal feeling for her. I just wanted to know if it was possible for me to have something with her. :P Anyway I will try to have some distance, but she txted today to know if I want to go to a club tonight...She knows I always go to my favorite club saturday night with some friends so what I do?
Author:  Spike007 [ Sun Nov 15, 2009 4:25 pm ]
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A little update of my situation.

I didn't txt her back last night because I didn't know if I would go out. I have an oral presentation with her this week so I have no choice to talk to her. Also, she proposed to go out shopping (I was talking about going out shopping with one of my girlfriend). She told me she is a better friend to shop with. I don't know if it's just me but I feel like she wants something to happen with me. But she always keep saying "But I am engaged". Like if she wants but something stop her.
Author:  toho.fuhai [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 3:55 am ]
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the i'm engaged is her saying "nothing is going to happen". Its like a lead on line. she's loving the attention but the phrase "I'm engaged" carries a hidden message with the way she's saying it. The message is "I would do something with you but I'm engaged."
now depending on your morals man that I'm engaged line will or will not matter to you. If you want to do something with her then stop hanging out with her for a bit. I want to give more advice but I'm new to being a PUA can someone with more experience take it from here?
Author:  jbrad [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 6:46 pm ]
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haha, yes, sounds like friends zone.


She's telling you she can't bare the thought of not kissing and fucking her boyfriend? Last time I checked that's not an IOI and she sounds like shes still head-over-heels for him, despite her crying, and despite her friend's advice.

Move on and if it get her than cool. You can't really do much besides wait. Agreed?
Author:  Spike007 [ Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:13 am ]
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Ok, maybe you are right. I thought she was giving me IOI because she always lead the conversation into something sexual. Anyway, what do I do about the shopping thing? I don't talk about it or I invite her and get the know her more and maybe get to know some of her girlfriends?
Author:  Spike007 [ Tue Nov 17, 2009 11:53 pm ]
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Anyone wants to help me??? I really need to know if I should invite her to shop with me because (I really do) need new clothes.
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