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Author:  rageamachine [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 6:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Setting myself some targets

Ok I'm completely new to the PUA game and to get myself started I'm gonna set some targets.
This is so that I have ownership over them and thus it will encourage me to fulfil them.

They are as follows:
- Speak to / say hi to 10 + random people
- Open with 5 different girls
- Get 5 n-closes

The time I'm giving myself to do this is a week from now.

If you wanna post up some targets as well we could compare, advice and update each other about our progress.

Author:  Z-Wrex [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 6:42 pm ]
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I'm not a big fan of that third goal. If you're just starting and you're setting goals for closes, you're gonna get aggravated the first couple times you get rejected. Then it's easy to get more nervous because you now are worried that the next woman you go for will turn you down. The first two goals are great because they are forcing you to open up. But there's no reason, with your limited experience, to set goals on closes. See how you do with the first 2 and possibly expand. Maybe you open to 5 different girls but only 2 react well. Then you go back, dissect your game, and once you're confident enough in your abilities, you can start setting goals like 5 n-closes.

Author:  rageamachine [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 6:51 pm ]
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cool man appreciate the advice, will definitely try that.

Author:  rageamachine [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 6:55 pm ]
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What would qualify a good reaction? I was able to open to a couple of girls today and had a conversation, mainly casual though I did talk about seeing one at a bar tomorow cause its my mates B-day. :)

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