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Author:  JMZ. [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 7:35 am ]
Post subject:  My story and current situation
Okay here's my story.
There's this girl who I've known since grade 3 ( My one-itis), long story short there was a lot of attraction between us but we never talked, she moved in grade 7 and in first year of HS we got together. Being the AFC I was, or am; I was being way too needy and trying way too hard to impress. Eventually she lost attraction. That's when I went into depression. I went googling and came across came across David.D's stuff. Although I didn't stick with it I only stuck with it till I got over her (Very grateful to him though, great man). Recently (2 years since grade eight) she's managed to get me hooked again :oops: . I guess it doesn't help having her brother as one of my best buds since elementary, huh? :\
Anyways to the point, her birthday is coming up and I'm invited as every year. I figure I'll give it one last shot from now to 2010 (almost 2 months) What should I do from here?
Author:  RhythmSLC [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 8:41 am ]
Post subject:  this can get Shady
I'm going to tell you my story it's a bit shady cause it cost me a lot but I also learned a lot from it. A couple years ago I had a pretty heavy one-ites she was my best friend at the time and I tried numerous times to take it to the next level. Every time she said "I just see you as a friend". Then I read the game by Neil Strauss and started reading all the PUA stuff I could find. I told her about it and she said she wanted to go pivot for me. and I started trying new material on her and just got a lot more confident. Next thing I know we are getting hot and heavy and well I shattered the friend barrier. Problem was She was Mormon and went into guilt mode and to make it worse she was going to BYU. Since she got in trouble with the church over it she ended up getting kicked out of BYU and in the end costing us our friendship. Since then I have never had a friend barrier and I am very open that I am a member of the community. I also avoid practicing Mormons and BYU students Like the plague at least in any sexual way. Now I believe that if the wasn't the Religion involved that were would have had a happy and healthy relationship. In short you may just want to practice with her and tell her about the community. I have never had a bad response to this. You may be Surprised by the response.
Author:  JMZ. [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 3:19 am ]
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Thanks for that, I may consider this with other girls in the future, but not right now. As I said her brother and I are best friends and it would become extremely awkward. On top of that it would be extremely weird for her as well cause of our past relationship and she's the type to let her emotions out and tell her best friend. I don't need to have the small number of girls in my grade all know I am studying to attract them. I also said I would only give this 2 more months so there's no need for me to risk that. Any advice on what I should say to build rapport again? Note: Her birthday is coming up.
Author:  PUA_CHRIS [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:35 am ]
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All i can say is cut the line bro. You mentioned she has lost attraction in you before, so going up to her and trying to be all cool and amog after you guys broke up will seem like you're being even more,"way too needy and trying way too hard to impress her". You mention David D, and one thing he always says is, "it's ok to be a man". So be a man. And if you want her so badly make her ass jealous and want your junk, fuck that whole trying to impress her shit......all you guys with oneitis always seem to make the girl out to be some womanly god of sorts. She is no better than you, nobody is.

Keep your head up.
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