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Author:  DirtyDreams [ Tue Nov 10, 2009 7:34 pm ]
Post subject:  If KASEY goes wrong, how to move on?
Kasey = Kiss close

You are the life of the party. Having fun with everyone at high school parties. Everybody likes what you do, everybody wants to be part of your personal funteam so they could get women like you do.

You have been touching some girls at the dance floor, pretty intimately. Then you see that most beautiful girl of parties, sitting there with some people. You are most confident now, there you go... You approach the girl little drunk. You are in state of success.

You qualify her. You THINK she is warmed now, you hurry up into kiss close, she maybe dodges you or kisses and says then "What you doing!??!?!?!"

Everybody around you are now laughing at you. You feel like you want to shrink as small as mouse and just run in to your hole. Its not possible though.

So what you do now to recover the situation?
Author:  TheJ [ Tue Nov 10, 2009 7:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: If KASEY goes wrong, how to move on?
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You qualify her. You THINK she is warmed now, you hurry up into kiss close, she maybe dodges you or kisses and says then "What you doing!??!?!?!"

Everybody around you are now laughing at you.
Is that an actual situation or your limiting beliefs that you are laying before us?
Author:  DirtyDreams [ Tue Nov 10, 2009 8:07 pm ]
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Its a situation Im trying to put you in with using word YOU so you can imagine it easier.
Author:  TheJ [ Tue Nov 10, 2009 8:36 pm ]
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Its a situation Im trying to put you in with using word YOU so you can imagine it easier.
A girl moving away from a kiss is one thing I saw before. A girls moving away from a kiss and laughing at you with everyone join in is not something you'll see if you have the slightest social calibration. You are feeding a fear inside you by planning for these scenarios, it's not helping anyone.

Getting rejected for a kiss happens. If that does just roll with it. I would even call the girl out on it "That's cute, trying to act hard to get now?".
Author:  Brendan_84 [ Wed Nov 11, 2009 2:58 am ]
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Interesting situation.

If it happens, it's because there is too much social status for her at stake. Hence why she will laugh at you in front of everybody so they know it.

If she likes you, and uncomfortable with the kiss, then she will react with something like, "I can't, I'm sorry" or "not here". In other words, she will not draw attention to it.

Experience always helps to differentiate between these kinds of situations.
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 2:38 am ]
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You may be thinking too negative before that even happens.

This situation happened exactly like this to me, but instead I didn't technically got rejected. Actually her sister kept saying "wow! trying2bpua is cool!" and encouraging her to like me, even though I went FAST to the KC. lol

She then had to rationalize why she liked me to all her friends.

Looks like I invented a new method, backwards attraction?? lol
Author:  vizzy [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 8:56 am ]
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Well how I would handle it is: once she says what are you doing (assuming I've kissed her for a bit)
I will say "What am I doing?!?!? What are YOU doing? Who said you could kiss me?"

Although when I go in for the kiss close I get her to the point where it's like we both go in for it, so it won't be just myself leaning in, if that makes any sense...

For example the classic "oh your hair smells so nice", lean in slowly smell her hair (not TOO much) around the neck, just like once, then slowly start moving away, but close in towards her.
Simple, well at is for me at least...
Author:  SirKonstantine [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 9:13 am ]
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Answer: Dont give a fuck.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=snyGhRgwSzw[/youtube]

Me and CPT Roger were in a 2 set. His girl is a stripper btw. He goes for the make out, she kisses him back for a sec, and gets slapped. What do I do? "Oi Oi Oi LETS GO!" Yeah I act like its nothing and continue gaming.

We ended up extracting them that night.
Author:  DirtyDreams [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 3:35 pm ]
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What did Roger do after that video?
Author:  Sexcellent [ Fri Nov 13, 2009 12:00 am ]
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you should be totally cool and uneffected as if you barely even noticed.

if you are totally cool and uneffected by her rejection, take a few steps back, and continue to game her as if it never happened, she will respect that.

i saw a video where lovedrop says that you can actually use this to your advantage. if you stop and are totally cool with it, she will know she can trust you. she then knows she doesn't have to worry that you are going to push things too far when you are alone with her. she likes the fact that you can respect her boundaries. she may want to take things to the next level with you, just not yet. if you say "well fuck you you fucking bitch!" she probably won't want to go any further with you.

i don't think it's realistic that everyone around you will be laughing at this. even if they are, it shouldn't effect you if you want to maintain your alpha frame.
Author:  SirKonstantine [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 4:42 am ]
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What did Roger do after that video?
me and roger bounced the 2set to the next bar. then we extracted.

The video was taken on the way out of the first bar to the next one.
Author:  jbrad [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 6:19 pm ]
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I think your focus should be less on "what can I do to recover?" and more on what did I learn from this situation and what is the right way to kiss a girl in the future.

I think the most obvious thing to me is that you should be isolating the girl in order to kiss her. Why are you trying to kiss her when everyone is watching clear as day? Because lets say she did kiss you, then she'd be the one who's embarrassed because everyone would be saying "oooohhh look at John and Emily GOING AT IT!!!"

Second, there's no reason to dive in for the kiss. That's amateur stuff. Watch some videos on youtube of that guy Tim from RSD kissing a girl. He's constantly moving his face close to her face, his lips closer to her lips, while hes got his arms around her waste the whole time.... and if she moves back he moves back, chills out, then moves slowly in again, GAUGING HER REACTIONS TO HIS ADVANCES THE WHOLE TIME. Really something thats difficult to understand unless you see it demonstrated.

Recap:
1. Get her in an isolated location
2. Move in slowly, inch by inch for the kiss, gauging her reactions.
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