Quote: Hmm, good idea. And if I'm ever in the area I'll definitely look you up.
I considered telling her that she should meet me at this really cool bar that's just up the way from where she works...but I wasn't sure if that was such a good idea.
Thanks for the advice.
Dear AgentO.
in my opinion, if we can name a ´lesbian game´ the first step is:
To SHOW that you are lesbian and in your world it is NORMAL.
If a woman I approach says: I am into men...
I say: REALLY?! like it is a ´not normal thing` to be straight. This is quite funny!
Many women flirt, they KNOW anyway if you are lesbian/ interested, and they spot truly EVERY WEAKNESS of you.
You´re shy? she ´ll check this
You are afraid to show that you are gay: she´ll check this
You are gay and interested? : she´ll check it.
Never forget.
My game´s base is: to show like it is NORMAL: I am lesbian, and yes, I find you attravctive- BUT: i don´t know you ( I didn´t buy you already just because you are sexy, because I don´t KNOW you!I find you attractive- but have to see if you fit MY bills and MY standards!!)
This is key, I guess. All the other stuff, like unspoken things and thought what she might think/ feel is kinda supplication! YOu invest way to much in what SHE thinks, is just MINDGAMES.
If I CAN SEE that a woman is lesbian, so this is different- but if I am not sure, I bring this topic soon on table- but like it is normal for me and have no probs to show it.
Example: I open with a compliment: I must say, I like your face I´d like to get to know you maby a little bit better ( with a smile:)
If she talks with me, and shows interest, I do small talk / touch her lightely and ask If she has a ´boyfriend´ .
If she says ´no´ I ask: ok, do you have a girlfriend?
If she says ´no´ ( and then I got the topic already on table:homosexuality...)
I say: why?
and so on.
Later I say that she is attractive and my type-and then she has to answer IF she is bisexual or open for it.
I must say, some girls PLAY like if they are interested, they send texts and say they wanna date and so on, even if they are not interested.
And then they FLAKE- I made this experience especially here in germany, where people in general are very jealous and afraid of new things- I found out a girl texted me, because she was angry that someone does that: I approached her at the railway station in a very good and confidence manner- I think she knew that I do this regualry, and not many people would do that!
So think of it- there are not ALWAYS women out there who are mentally and sexually healthy. Some simply hate sex and sensuality- they are completely f...d up and lie and so on!
Thank god there ARE some great girls/ women- it is our work to find them and sort them out of the ´bad stuff´:)
much love from germany!
Sylvia
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just dont cock block me lol