Heya,
How about just introducing yourself with a big smile? An important thing is whenever you socialize with whoever, no matter female or male is to actually have fun while doing that. Everyone likes people in a good mood, people having fun. Positive energy is contagious
When you talk with people, the easiest way to keep the conversation going is to actually choose a topic that you enjoy discussing. And back to the ‘positive energy is contagious’ statement: When you are enjoying the moment (just talking about something that interest you, having a drink, simply standing there and smile at each other …. Whatever) people around you feel that and they are getting into the same state
P.s Don’t over think it, overanalyze it … just go out there and enjoy it
Cheers
Jez