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| Author: | Tallie [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 5:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Approaching At Parties |
Hey guys, So I recently started going to tons of parties at my school and I'm cool with a lot of people so I tend to talk to everyone I know and have a good time. But when it comes to talking to girls I don't know, I just don't end up approaching them most times. The times I have tried, it seems as if they are in their little groups and don't like it when guys come in and interrupt to talk to them, OR I just run out of things to talk about (after the whole "where are you from", "who do you know things"). Whats your advice on approaching girls at parties? And also, I am 6'5'' and sometimes I feel like girls are intimidated by me just because I'm tall. Even when I say something nice like "How's everyone doing." Is it the fact that I'm tall, or do you think its the way I say things? Thanks a lot! |
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| Author: | Astute [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 5:46 am ] |
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Look at the halloween opens no close in newbie questions i posted something which might help there. Also use a bit of body language, try and stand slightly askance to the girls and DON'T fold your arms or put your hands in your pockets. Instead use your hands to communicate aswell. As for going up and talking the the girls in their tight little groups, use it to your advantage, approach and ask them for their opinion on something for example: if you bought a new watch approach the girls and say ' hey i just need some female advice for a quick minute, what do you think about this watch... ' the conversation should flow from there. Good luck, hope this helps. |
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| Author: | Hitman47 [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 6:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approaching At Parties |
Quote: Hey guys,
There might be 1001 mistakes ur doing and not telling us(tone, body language, show interest too early, etc.)So I recently started going to tons of parties at my school and I'm cool with a lot of people so I tend to talk to everyone I know and have a good time. But when it comes to talking to girls I don't know, I just don't end up approaching them most times. The times I have tried, it seems as if they are in their little groups and don't like it when guys come in and interrupt to talk to them, OR I just run out of things to talk about (after the whole "where are you from", "who do you know things"). Whats your advice on approaching girls at parties? And also, I am 6'5'' and sometimes I feel like girls are intimidated by me just because I'm tall. Even when I say something nice like "How's everyone doing." Is it the fact that I'm tall, or do you think its the way I say things? Thanks a lot! So my best advice is, jst go out there and practice practice practice (with some reading of course) Practice makes perfect. As for the fact that ur tall, use it to ur adv. (I usually dont date girls who're this shorter than me but maybe Ill make an exception for u) or something along those lines. |
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| Author: | Astute [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 9:11 am ] |
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And make sure you smile heaps, and Hitman's height comment is good. |
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