Why not just tell her she didn't get the joke? I am new at this so I may be wrong.
Or maybe you didn't give her the feeling that you can make joke like this and she took you seriously.
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 3:36 pm ] |
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Well basically tried one of those text messages relating to being a retard and it didn't go down well at all! Tried it on Facebook as an opening comment and got deleted. Anyway here's what it said: "Hi there, me and my friends bet eachother £50 that retards can't type, can you prove them wrong? x" I thought she would take it as a joke but apparently not, so is it best just to wait 'til I next see her apologise face to face (rather than bother calling and have her risk putting the phone down) Anyway its not so much that it matters if I get this girl, I'm perfectly happy taking the 'NEXT' mentality but she's near my study space and I'd be happy just even salvaging a friendship. |
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| Author: | Spike007 [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 3:46 pm ] |
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Why not just tell her she didn't get the joke? I am new at this so I may be wrong. Or maybe you didn't give her the feeling that you can make joke like this and she took you seriously.
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| Author: | SC70 [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 3:58 pm ] |
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That message is really insulting and not funny. Plus, you're telling her that if she writes you a message it will confirm that she thinks she's a retard and wants to prove you wrong, so it's really begging her not to. Plus the word retard is offensive to a lot of people. |
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 4:27 pm ] |
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Yeah figured it was the latter. Well will talk to her and see how it goes but looks like I can't really salvage a relationship. Bah, bad advice from this forum, goes to show really. However I would still like to hear other people's feedback on how to overcome this and at least salvage at least remain on good terms to a small extent. As I said, I can live without a relationship and I'm happy for the learning experience. |
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