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Author:  bluemoon [ Sat Oct 31, 2009 8:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Guidelines for expressing intent?

What are the proper things to keep in mind when expressing sexual intent to a girl? How is expressing desire NOT acting like a desperate chump because that's how I feel whenever I attempt it.

Author:  Chief [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 4:18 pm ]
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there's a difference between desperation and desire. desperation is based on neediness and desire is based on pleasure.

just think of how pleasurable it would be to be getting a BJ from the girl and fucking her instead of trying to get with her to validate yourself or to satisfy your ego

Author:  bluemoon [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 2:37 am ]
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Could you elaborate a bit on that? What you said makes no sense to me. The only reason blowjobs and fucking are pleasurable is because they are expressions of validation and ego satisfaction. Do you honestly think sex is all about the tactile sensations?

Thanks for the reply, Chief.

Author:  Chief [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 8:30 am ]
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The only reason blowjobs and fucking are pleasurable is because they are expressions of validation and ego satisfaction.
Whoa! I sense some major sex issues!

Sex is about physical, emotional, and even sometimes spiritual pleasure. Validation and ego are actually roadblocks to achieving such pleasure.

maybe this might help: http://chiefpua.blogspot.com/2009/08/be ... needy.html

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