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Author:  Slywalker [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 4:11 am ]
Post subject:  Forum Spirit declining
:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

Guys, I love this forum, it annoys me that I didn't find it sooner in my Pick Up career but ever since I got here it has been a lot of fun.
The majority of members here are like minded and are here for fun and to exchange ideas, help less experienced guys out or to learn how to become a real PUA or just to chill out in the chat and make new friends.

But lately, I have noticed a severe decline in spirit.

Contributing factors to this are spammers and overposters, pointless complaints, people who endlessly brag but never help anyone out, posts that simply just provide negative comments without being constructive, haters, flamers etc.

Now, just by this simple description I think most of you already know which people I'm talking about, and if you do then that means that they have annoyed you too, or maybe you feel that the description described you in particular, if so then please either stop posting or write something contributing and positive that others will enjoy reading!

Many people really like this forum, I'm one of them, please don't ruin it with all your bullshit!
Author:  Jaybot [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 4:24 am ]
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for sure man most of the guys that don't have a business agenda to be here and are here of there own steam literally to help are slowly getting bored of petty drama and bullshit. Me included I am slowly stopping posting on the forums, I will still be active in chat and if anyone wants to PM me but the whole feel of the forum is changing ad a shit load of damn good puas are leaving because they are tired of egos and bullshit.

At the end of the day no post will change the situation I think it is jsut a case of sticking it out till the nobodies get bored and leave (that was harsh I know but meh).
Author:  Jezebel [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 10:10 am ]
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You can’t fight people who are here simply to start personal wars, seek validation or spread negative energy; it is senseless and a waste of time. Instead of taking the time to read posts that are simply going to piss you off, why not just open another post that would bring you some good? Maybe being ignorant in that particular case isn’t such a bad idea, or is it?!?!
When answering to a post that is fulfilled with negativism, that just feeds up one more time the particular user, and they won’t stop bragging since they have an audience.
The most powerful way to make someone realize how insignificant they are is not telling them that but simply remain silent and don’t bother to even take the time to talk to them. Why would you waste your energy with people who aren’t bringing anything good to your day?

Keep up the positive thinking ;)

Smiles
Jez
Author:  Chief [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Forum Spirit declining
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Contributing factors to this are spammers and overposters, pointless complaints, people who endlessly brag but never help anyone out, posts that simply just provide negative comments without being constructive, haters, flamers etc.
There will always be people who spam, brag, seek validation, and behave in ego-motivated ways.

There will also always be people who give real value selflessly, open channels for constructive discussions, and encourage others to do the same.

As long as the "good side" doesn't give up, people will benefit from this forum.
Author:  Jav [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 12:48 pm ]
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It's a nice positivity training.

Everywhere in life you will have people that whine/brag. That's cool. There is no positivity without negativity.
Author:  kasabi [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 3:47 pm ]
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This forum is filled with members from all walks of life working through their respective issues. Everything we write is telling of our current path, whether we realize it or not.

Through their writing recently, a few members have openly revealed themselves and their issues to this forum and in turn, the members in general have reacted negatively to it. However, I wonder how many of you understand the scope of their individual problems. If a forum of people with intentions "support and help one another" are so negative to a few, what do you think THEIR EXPERIENCES ARE IN REAL LIFE? There is a reason that these recent ramblers need to enforce that, "Really, really, really . . . in REAL LIFE, I am soooooo different and much, much better . . ." - There are some serious issues here . . .

Some of you more astute members with some life experience have already perceived this situation for what it is and have already retracted to treated lighter around it. This is probably the best path for now.
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people who spam, brag, seek validation, and behave in ego-motivated ways.


^^ These patterns don't fall out of an empty sky. Instead, these gifts are usually delivered through a heavy hand.
Author:  madals [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 4:02 pm ]
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This is a cycle, it happens once or twice a year.
New people join forum, they learn stuff, get good and start getting lots of women. They then think they are fantastic at everything and feel a need to tell everyone how good they are.
The people who are still learning get frustrated at the boasting and people who haven't seen it before often leave.
It will all cool down in a month or two. Then people will start to realise there is a lot more to life than women or will get bored telling people how amazing they are since its no longer amazing to them.
kasabi, really liked your post.
Author:  Zip [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 5:38 pm ]
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I agree. We've seen it coming, and we're doing everything we can to fix it.

Believe me, I share in the frustration, but (fortunately, and it's really nice to see you share the same sentiments) this forum is a wonderful place with wonderful people.

We'll get through it, with a little fall cleaning. Just waiting on Dad to give us the proper tools.
Author:  Ezo [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 6:48 pm ]
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I love this forum! This is one of the best places to discuss game, do not forget that there are a lot of good PUAs here that are ready to help out anyone in need. I just hope that everyone who has stuff to say and has stuff to teach will stay. I hate to see people destroy for us but the best way to deal with it is to not let them take over. Hang in there! The majority are still awsome guys! (And girls...)

Ezo
Author:  Slywalker [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 10:00 pm ]
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I find it amazing when I look who responded to this thread, it is really the A-team of the PUA forum, and none of the negative trolls cared to reply.

This just proves that you guys are amazing and that we have a solid group of people that are here, ready to carry this forum forward in a positive manner, very inspiring!
I'm gonna keep posting and give advice to the aspiring PUAs who ask for it!
Author:  modesty [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:02 pm ]
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amen bro
but hey they are the kind of poeple who will just give up after a while
so its just amatter of time until there gone
Author:  Brah [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:03 pm ]
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I find it amazing when I look who responded to this thread, it is really the A-team of the PUA forum, and none of the negative trolls cared to reply.
ccccccccombo breaker!
Author:  ~Finesse [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:08 pm ]
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I just ignore these people. In real life this tends to lead to them trying to seek validation through more lies, and more obsurd lies. Once everyone begins to ignore them, it takes a while, but they realise they need to stop. Once they are let in, they often resort back to the same ways however.

On the internet, as long as people keep responding, these people will continue to fight for validation and for people to believe in what they are saying. The best way is to ignore, leave them to themselfs. But with a lot of new members seeking help and advice, (especially those who are more clueless than others), they could end up recieving bad advice from these users, so I see the problem there.




On a seperate matter, I like kasabi's posts. He should join the chat sometime...


~Blend
Author:  Zip [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 12:05 am ]
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if you feel like you're being trolled, and the moderators have missed it, please, report it to us and we'll do our best.
Author:  Saint1990 [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 12:56 am ]
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I like your post buddy. I have to admit that im pretty new to the forum but i do realy enjoy it. I love helping people and having people help me. Dont realy know what point i was going to make by posting here other than that i whole heartedly agree.

Good post buddy

Regards Saint
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