I think he needs a slap to try and get a grip!
Seriously mate, contain yourself and stop worrying so much! Just do what you have to do. If you're rejected then its an old classic line:
NEXT!!!
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| Author: | imanewbie [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 12:33 am ] |
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Oki, I was in a bar last week and met twins around 35 yo. Im 24. During the convo one ofthem tried to put me for a lesser. The other seems to have liked me. As I mentioned I do judo she asked for my number to see some classes and stuff. her sister got somewhat uncorfortable with it. And made that "you are not doing this look". As the woman havent made any contact during the week as I had to motto to call I called and informed about the classes schedules and she seemed interested. Today I stumbled with them on the same bar and ask how they where doing and if they made a decision about watching soem aclasess as the club is doing a women only class. Again one of them was supper recebtive and the other one very cold. After some moretalk with a friend of hers who also seemed interested in the convo the sister which doesnt like me switched the conversation topic and left me a bit out of it so I politely left the table. Im interested in this cougar but got no idea about what to do and I fell im sort of already burnt but as she started asking the number I keep the interest for learning pourpouses could you give me some ideas please? |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 1:40 am ] |
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Ignore the negative one. If she continues the negative crap, you'll have to neg her a bit to get keep out of the picture just long enough to gain contact information of the positive one. Then get the hell out of there and contact the one you want later on. You'll get nothing done if you stay there. Regardless of how much the "positive" sister shows interest in you, you're still the the stranger. They're sisters. Simple as that. |
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| Author: | Impact [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 1:56 am ] |
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Well if one of them is being negative and the other is giving you a positive response, then you should banter with the girl that likes you and be polite and friendly with the other which is giving you trouble. With twins, someone is always more jealous then the other, and it goes back to childhood rivalry! So make sure your giving the one that gets least attention the better side of you! Again women are very cluey they know whats happening. |
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| Author: | imanewbie [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 2:31 am ] |
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Well I called the positive once and tried to talk to them today so I have not chickned. But I also feel a lot of the momment was gone dunno lost the frame. If the woman had gone to the class I could dhv now if I ask her out I feel it is a ig dlv and I will gbet a big no. They have a pattern in going to that bar. Maybe I could wait dont call and stumble upon them again and try reframming dunno. What do you folks suggest?About girl knowing what is hapenning I really felt one of the sisters quiet upset when the other asked for my # cause I was decided to do not ask her even if I really wanted it. But I also dont want to look needy or creepy =/ |
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| Author: | Impact [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 2:37 am ] |
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What do you feel? Do you feel like you are in a good position to win this girl back? Our intuition as men is second to none, we can genuinely feel if somethings not going to work. My personal advice is to skip it, if you don't get the interaction the first or even second time, then why keep drilling at it! ? because you want to fuck one of them? dude your the prize your 24, they are fucking old hags! they should be chasing you! you've obviously done something wrong. |
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| Author: | imanewbie [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 2:40 am ] |
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Quote: What do you feel?
I feel there is sexual tension with the one which gave me the number to other one is a mean cold bitch. I dunno about my position since I had not done any major moves as Ive said I called once and was about the topic she asked me. Im cool about it just wanted to try something new.
Do you feel like you are in a good position to win this girl back? Our intuition as men is second to none, we can genuinely feel if somethings not going to work. My personal advice is to skip it, if you don't get the interaction the first or even second time, then why keep drilling at it! ? because you want to fuck one of them? dude your the prize your 24, they are fucking old hags! they should be chasing you! you've obviously done something wrong. |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 2:43 am ] |
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You want this, you want that. . . If this, if that . . . You feel this and that . . . Maybe try this or try that . . . But you don't want to look creepy? My God, just call her and take her out. What's going on? Is this the only "cougar" in your town or what? So she might say no. Ohhhh. . . .ouch . . . Look, unless she says no AND stabs you with a kitchen knife, you'll be OK, trust me . . . |
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| Author: | imanewbie [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 2:46 am ] |
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Quote: You want this, you want that. . . If this, if that . . . You feel this and that . . . Maybe try this or try that . . . But you don't want to look creepy?
Yup I should have done it before now seems borked and weird as fuck if I do it now.
My God, just call her and take her out. What's going on? Is this the only "cougar" in your town or what? So she might say no. Ohhhh. . . .ouch . . . Look, unless she says no AND stabs you with a kitchen knife, you'll be OK, trust me . . . |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 3:02 am ] |
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You're still doing it. "Should have done it, could have done it, might have done it . . . It will look this way or that. The last time I checked, "weird as fuck" never killed anybody. And it won't be ANY "weirder" now than it was before. Read your previous post . . . now that is weird as fuck. The only "time" you should be concerned with is NOW. The only THING you should be concerned with is calling her and taking her OUT! |
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| Author: | Impact [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 3:13 am ] |
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If you feel sexual tension then its time for you to go up to her and close the deal! Dont worry about her friend, pull the one you want aside. It all comes down to how good you are now! If you can play your cards well, bring up the sexxy, make her feel it then shes yours! |
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| Author: | imanewbie [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 4:47 am ] |
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Quote: If you feel sexual tension then its time for you to go up to her and close the deal! Dont worry about her friend, pull the one you want aside. It all comes down to how good you are now!
But if I plain ask her now I will recieve a plain no. She will certainly comment with her sister if I ask her out and I will be boomed! I need to somehow talk to her again like I tried today nut without the sister.
If you can play your cards well, bring up the sexxy, make her feel it then shes yours! |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Tue Oct 27, 2009 2:55 am ] |
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Did anybody ever slap you for getting an "F" as a kid? |
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Tue Oct 27, 2009 2:59 am ] |
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I think he needs a slap to try and get a grip! Seriously mate, contain yourself and stop worrying so much! Just do what you have to do. If you're rejected then its an old classic line: NEXT!!! |
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