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Author:  arcktik [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 10:53 am ]
Post subject:  Got in a fight with my friend over a girl that sees me as ju
Basically, a girl that I really enjoyed being in the presence of gently denied me half a year ago. Since then she transferred to a college in a different state but still kept in contact with me. Two days ago however she contacted me about coming down and visiting me. I invited her to a party that I was heading to this past Friday night, she came with me. At the party one of my friends started flirting with her hardcore. During the night I just kept getting pissed off more and more until I actually fought him and broke his nose and knocked one of his teeth out. Now the dude is threatening to sue me. I feel extremely embarrassed about the whole situation. I still don’t want to make peace with him or her for crossing me over like that but I feel like what I did was terrible. What should I do?
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 11:01 am ]
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Basically, a girl that I really enjoyed being in the presence of gently denied me half a year ago. Since then she transferred to a college in a different state but still kept in contact with me. Two days ago however she contacted me about coming down and visiting me. I invited her to a party that I was heading to this past Friday night, she came with me. At the party one of my friends started flirting with her hardcore. During the night I just kept getting pissed off more and more until I actually fought him and broke his nose and knocked one of his teeth out. Now the dude is threatening to sue me. I feel extremely embarrassed about the whole situation. I still don’t want to make peace with him or her for crossing me over like that but I feel like what I did was terrible. What should I do?
Uh. Stop being a fucking aggressive idiot? There a 3 BILLION women on earth. How the hell can ONE GIRL mean so much to you that you're willing to physically fight a guy over her. And TWO she fucking REJECTED YOU. It's HER CHOICE who she hooks up with and dates, not yours. She clearly LJBF'd your AFC ass a long time ago and you should have accepted it and kept her as a good female friend. Now you've lost two friends and gained nothing.

My second piece of advice is talk to your friend, admit you were wrong, apologise, and do everything you can to convince him to not take the action to court, even if it means settling (paying him) or going to mediation. Lawyers are fucking expensive and the whole process will get strung out for months and months and be hell for both of you.
Author:  arcktik [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:11 pm ]
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I’m going to try to apologize because i think its the right thing to do...I just felt extremely disrespected by him, there were at least 25 other girls at this party that I invited him to and he chose to go after the one girl there that I liked. He deserved what he got.
Author:  Bubbles. [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:15 pm ]
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Did you tell him thats your target?
Also did she come onto you first? You could of just been the AMOG without fighting him which would of worked 100x better. Remember people want to be with positive people not negative ones.

You have to remember while playing the game you have to swallow your pride and take the hits/rejections, its hard but you have to keep smiling thinking about the good points, you could of easily went off and thought "ah well another 24 other girls to go"

Most of us have been screwed over one time or another its how we deal with it, all you can do now is admit you screwed up don't resist whats happened and blame it all on him, just say sorry and tell him why you did it and accept what he has to say. 8)
Author:  Reo [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 2:33 pm ]
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I’m going to try to apologize because i think its the right thing to do...I just felt extremely disrespected by him, there were at least 25 other girls at this party that I invited him to and he chose to go after the one girl there that I liked. He deserved what he got.
If i were him I'd sue you too. It'll teach you a lesson clearly you learned nothing from this experience
Author:  arcktik [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 4:29 pm ]
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He knew I was going after this girl and its not like I wasn’t making any progress with her either, he would come in every time I was talking to her and totally cockblock me. I was just being really suttle with her because she is my friend and he was just being a drunk idiot taking advantage of the fact that she was drunk too.

You all are quick to side with him, but really he did cross some lines that he shouldn’t have crossed since he was my friend. After the party I was trying to convince her to come down to my place but he kept insisting that she spent the night with him. I guess all my anger and jealousy got the best of me.
Author:  Bubbles. [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 5:26 pm ]
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Look up AMOG, im sure you would of been able to do this without fighting him.
I'm guessing the girl has not spoke to you since or has become distant.. It was a bad move on your half and your friends was a douche but you have to kiss and make up. :wink:

Bro's before Ho's
Author:  jurupa [ Sun Oct 25, 2009 8:00 am ]
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I guess all my anger and jealousy got the best of me.
You guess? Try DID. Ya what your friend did was uncool. But that does not mean you need to beat the crap out of him. You should have either block him from your target or take him aside and tell him to back off as you find what he is doing is uncool. And you need to also game your target better so that she won't be as easy to be taken away.
Author:  Chief [ Sun Oct 25, 2009 11:22 am ]
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I’m going to try to apologize because i think its the right thing to do...I just felt extremely disrespected by him, there were at least 25 other girls at this party that I invited him to and he chose to go after the one girl there that I liked. He deserved what he got.
He didn't deserve what he got, and you're not actually remorseful.

First of all, it's your own damn fault for being hung up on a chick who you failed hard with. Second of all, it's your fault for being such a beta male that you had to resort to physical violence to get your point across rather than using social skills to get what you want.

You are completely at fault here, and you owe him a formal apology. Deep down inside, you know this to be true because a part of you is telling you that apologizing is the right thing to do.

Now quit being such an AFC and GFTOW.
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