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Hey, could all you new posters and old alike kindly refrain yourselves from using the word help.

Words are such a integral part of our communication and believe it or not effect our deepest subconscious.

The word help, derives from helpless which in turn means; lacking in or deprived of strength or power.

When you use the word "help" the first thing your subconscious does is associate (anchor) a image and feeling behind that word.

Example:
Help - Helpless - Dead in the water - Expecting to be saved - Lacking the required ability to overcome the situation, dependent on others

When these connections are made and used often, they become habit. These habits are rooted directly into your subconscious which in turn are expressed by your body (your vibe). Use enough negative connotations and you will naturally feel and look like a piece of shit to women despite saying and using the right material! You won't have any success and you will be buffed and depressed wondering why on earth thats so. Even more disturbing however is that you DONT even realize this is happening.

There are better words, instead of screaming like a like bitch "HELP WITH MY GIRL PROBLEMS" you could simply say "Assistance required with a feminine issue". Little rewordings like this will keep you sane and going forward.

I personally don't read posts that say "HELP PLEASE" or any of that! And if you'd like genuine answers, by top coaches on this forum, i suggest you avoid this phrasing.

Author:	Impact [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 10:42 am ]
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Hey! could all you new posters and old alike kindly refrain yourselves from using the word "help". Words are such a integral part of our communication. Believe it or not they effect the deepest parts of our conscious and subconscious mind. The word "help", derives from helpless which in turn means; lacking in or deprived of strength or power. When you use the word "help" the first thing your subconscious does is associate (anchor) a image and feeling behind that word. Example: Help - Helpless - Dead in the water - Expecting to be saved - Lacking the required ability to overcome the situation - Dependent on others and not yourself - Not accepting responsibility for your well being. When these connections are made and used often, they become habit. These habits are rooted directly into your subconscious, which in turn is expressed by your body and your vibe. Use enough negative connotations and you will naturally feel and look like a piece of shit to women, despite saying and using the right material! You won't get any success and you will be confused and depressed, wondering why on earth thats so! Even more disturbing however is that you DON'T even realize this is happening. There are better words, instead of screaming like a silly bitch "HELP WITH MY GIRL PROBLEMS" you could simply say "Assistance required with a feminine issue". Little rewordings like this will keep you sane and going forward. I personally don't read posts that say "HELP PLEASE" or any of that... And if you'd like genuine answers, by top coaches on this forum, id suggest you avoid this phrasing. Lastly, keep in mind we want to answer your questions. it's your questions that allow us coaches to learn how to give the best advice possible. The advice we give you further also allows us to focus on the right material for our books, seminars or personal training. However ALSO keep in mind that people genuinely don't like reliving their past, let alone dealing with it. So try to compose yourselves as much as possible and articulate a semi professional question, without such psychologically damaging words as "HELP". Cheers

Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 10:55 am ]
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Quote: Hey, could all you new posters and old alike kindly refrain yourselves from using the word help. Words are such a integral part of our communication and believe it or not effect our deepest subconscious. The word help, derives from helpless which in turn means; lacking in or deprived of strength or power. When you use the word "help" the first thing your subconscious does is associate (anchor) a image and feeling behind that word. Example: Help - Helpless - Dead in the water - Expecting to be saved - Lacking the required ability to overcome the situation, dependent on others When these connections are made and used often, they become habit. These habits are rooted directly into your subconscious which in turn are expressed by your body (your vibe). Use enough negative connotations and you will naturally feel and look like a piece of shit to women despite saying and using the right material! You won't have any success and you will be buffed and depressed wondering why on earth thats so. Even more disturbing however is that you DONT even realize this is happening. There are better words, instead of screaming like a like bitch "HELP WITH MY GIRL PROBLEMS" you could simply say "Assistance required with a feminine issue". Little rewordings like this will keep you sane and going forward. I personally don't read posts that say "HELP PLEASE" or any of that! And if you'd like genuine answers, by top coaches on this forum, i suggest you avoid this phrasing. Hear hear! I concur. Also, people love being asked for their advice or opinion. This is why opinion openers work so well! Say "need some advice about this girl..." and people are far more likely to want to put in their 2p. Nobody wants to "help the needy" because it seems like some kind of charity and you don't feel like you're gonna receive any reciprocity.

Author:	Impact [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 11:14 am ]
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These following words give me a rash; need, please, excuse me, help, sorry, nice, etc... Probably more out there, but you guys get the point.

Author:	Ivan X [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 11:16 am ]
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Done. Great point. Make me think about some of the other words, acronyms and the associations we make to them. Yesterday watched a Steve P, Johnny Soporno clip on youtube, talking about the negative side effects of the numbering looks on a 10 scale.

Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 11:38 am ]
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Quote: These following words give me a rash; need, please, excuse me, help, sorry, nice, etc... Probably more out there, but you guys get the point. It's funny actually. I've noticed Adam Lyons actually says "excuse me" and/or "sorry to bother you" when he does openers A LOT. And yet he's one of the great mPUAs. Makes ya think...?

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Author:	Impact [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 11:40 am ]
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Quote: It's funny actually. I've noticed Adam Lyons actually says "excuse me" and/or "sorry to bother you" when he does openers A LOT. And yet he's one of the great mPUAs. Makes ya think... All rules are there to be broken, eventually (but eventually is not now). Eventually is generally 3 years from the time you become a man (dependent on your learning curve). For some it may be sooner, for some its later! Keep in mind also that sooner doesn't mean better, and later doesn't mean worse. When the time comes, you will choose your vocabulary, which will match your personality.

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