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| Author: | Noz03 [ Thu Oct 22, 2009 5:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Connecting stories, avoiding silences, ect. |
This is probably the most simple thing but... I have a bunch of DHV stories and conversations ect. that I want to have but my problem is I dont know how to start them, especially after opening. When you finished an opener, a topic or what ever and theres a silence... what can you talk about? Or how can you start a new piece of material? I asked a similar question here before but maybe wasnt specific enough so let me give an example: If I was to use a short opinion opener, like "does this hat make me look gay because men keep approaching me tonight..." After the 30 seconds talking about that which everyone keeps saying should be the limit for an opener, what do you say next? Even at a bus stop, u ask if the bus is going to X place, then what? Sometimes it just spontaneously happens, but when it doesnt Im stumped... Please help! |
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| Author: | NaturalE [ Thu Oct 22, 2009 7:09 pm ] |
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is that your actual opener? if so, break it up into: hey guys, i got to get back to my friends in a sec but; does this hat make me look gay? women say: bla bla bla bla thats really interesting actually because i have had like 3 men approching me tonight, i was over at PUB NAME HERE with my friend jane and these 3 separate guys approached me, she was starting to get a little pissed. Women say: why? or really? yeah, it was because they wernt hitting on her! so you guys ever had a woman come on to you? you dont have to answer (target), im guessing you dont. target: what you mean? im not saying any of you look gay but you (target) just dont look like an adventurous person at all so im not sure they would. i tell you what, if you wear my hat, we will wait and see what happens. so how do you all know each other.. .. .. just off the top of my head. but these are just words, you got to be locked in before you use prop/hat and be prepared to adapt to the situation. spontaneous openers; i like to use a crazy bet "i bet you that the bus driver will have a mustache" "what?" "i have a theory that in order to drive a bus, you must have a mustache, so if you are thinking of being a bus driver, better get growing" |
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| Author: | Noz03 [ Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:25 am ] |
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Thanks, thats a good idea but how could I start a completely new conversation ect? Apart from the "how do you all know each other" line. Also what could you do to start things up again in the middle if it suddenly goes silent? I think the problem is Im living in Asia and the girls are really shy, so I basically have to carry the whole conversation by my self... Never really had this problem with western women. |
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| Author: | NaturalE [ Fri Oct 23, 2009 6:40 pm ] |
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well it depends on what you transition into, if its any story with a girl in it: you know you look just like a friend of mine, shes so ditzy this one time. . . . . do a fun routine, this one is cool, i just posted it: here-vp290183.html#290183 if you have a little trick or whatever; "hey i just got shown this awsome trick, ok heres what you do..." |
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| Author: | Teevster [ Fri Oct 23, 2009 11:35 pm ] |
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Why avoiding silences? |
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