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Any tips o advice? I feel weird getting ready and going out alone

I'm slowly getting into Day Game but I want to focus on solo club stuff. All of my friends were out this weekend and I didn't go to the club because I felt like It was going to suck

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I'm slowly getting into Day Game but I want to focus on solo club stuff. All of my friends were out this weekend and I didn't go to the club because I felt like It was going to suck

yeah well in that case I suggest just walking in and socializing with EVERYONE, not just targets, but everybody. Come off as a very charismatic guy and you'll get attention. Also, regardless of whether you're alone, DON'T ever be by yourself in the club..always talk to someone.

Do any of you feel that you act differently when approaching women around your friends? I'm real new to this and it may just be me and some kind of anxiety I have about rejection infront of others but I prefer going out alone during the day.

Author:	Foxtrot 5 [ Sun Oct 18, 2009 4:22 am ]
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Any tips o advice? I feel weird getting ready and going out alone

Author:	vizzy [ Sun Oct 18, 2009 6:31 am ]
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Quote: Any tips o advice? I feel weird getting ready and going out alone When I used to sarge, I'd go out at night with my "friends". Recently I've had problems with many of these "friends" and are no longer on speaking terms. So I don't have many people to go out with during the night. And I also moved to another city, so I don't have a huge social circle where I am to begin with... That's why I started day game (as I don't like going out alone at night). I found that I was MUCH more confident in the clubs, as opposed to a coffee shop or clothing store. So I've really started practicing openers and boosting my confidence in the day. I suggest going out during the day to a shopping mall and sarging at all the dif. clothing stores, coffee shops, technically anywhere during the day.

Author:	Foxtrot 5 [ Sun Oct 18, 2009 7:23 am ]
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I'm slowly getting into Day Game but I want to focus on solo club stuff. All of my friends were out this weekend and I didn't go to the club because I felt like It was going to suck

Author:	kasabi [ Sun Oct 18, 2009 7:54 am ]
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I LOVE sarging alone . . .

Author:	vizzy [ Sun Oct 18, 2009 8:01 am ]
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Quote: I'm slowly getting into Day Game but I want to focus on solo club stuff. All of my friends were out this weekend and I didn't go to the club because I felt like It was going to suck yeah well in that case I suggest just walking in and socializing with EVERYONE, not just targets, but everybody. Come off as a very charismatic guy and you'll get attention. Also, regardless of whether you're alone, DON'T ever be by yourself in the club..always talk to someone.

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Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sun Oct 18, 2009 1:56 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: I'm slowly getting into Day Game but I want to focus on solo club stuff. All of my friends were out this weekend and I didn't go to the club because I felt like It was going to suck yeah well in that case I suggest just walking in and socializing with EVERYONE, not just targets, but everybody. Come off as a very charismatic guy and you'll get attention. Also, regardless of whether you're alone, DON'T ever be by yourself in the club..always talk to someone. Yeah. I used to go to clubs a lot by myself. The most important thing is to talk to people in the queue as you are going in, because then you can look like you are arriving with them when you guys all go in together. This means you don't lose value by walking in by yourself. Once you're in, if you just open literally everyone then you can always fall back on a huge number of sets, high five people on the dancefloor, etc. and so when you do approach the HBs, it looks like you have a number of friends there already, and if the set doesn't work out, you can go straight back to one of your friendly sets so you're not left standing there awkwardly after having been blown out.

Author:	Lodewijkp [ Sun Oct 18, 2009 2:26 pm ]
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i like to sarge alone to ... you can go wherever you want want and when you want. sarging solo is ok .. just try to open sets with guys and later on do the HB 4 and 5's they are easy to open. just work your way up. i have been going out all alone for 2 years... sometimes with friends but 90 % of the time i go out alone. Your game and confidence will impove like crazy

Author:	ATM16 [ Sun Oct 18, 2009 3:54 pm ]
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Do any of you feel that you act differently when approaching women around your friends? I'm real new to this and it may just be me and some kind of anxiety I have about rejection infront of others but I prefer going out alone during the day.

Author:	kasabi [ Sun Oct 18, 2009 10:04 pm ]
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Quote: Do any of you feel that you act differently when approaching women around your friends? I'm real new to this and it may just be me and some kind of anxiety I have about rejection infront of others but I prefer going out alone during the day. If you have to worry about "friends" picking on your over a few rejections, you need new friends. . . Close friends should be supporting you. There is a difference between laughing with you over funny situations and straight out mocking you in front of others. It is however, up to you to frame your social interactions with your friends and others. Have fun and laugh your way through everything. "Challenge" each other and have fun. Moping and whining about little "jokes" is a real downer so just laugh it off and go, "Ha ha . . . OK, that sucked . . . Alright, you kids ready for another laugh? Here I go again . . . who's got my back? "

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