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Author:  sfehonda [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 6:44 am ]
Post subject:  Long read, but please give advice!

Full story is im a sophmore in college. I have a pretty solid night game, i get drunk and start to talk to girls, because i'm attractive, as long as i can carry conversation i can usually close. About 3 weeks ago I was at a party and met an attractive girl and got her number. I texted her back the next week to see if she was going out, she gave a kind of shady answer so i just forgot about her. Well last week i randomly met her at another party. I didn't recognize her but she recognized me and grabbed my phone and added her last name for her contact. At that point i knew i was in and ended the night hooking up with her a little but i couldn't do much because her friend was staying over. Well two days later i txt her asking what she's doing later. She says she's doing hw but might go out if she finishes... Well later that night she texts me just as I finish pregaming so i was feeling good and by her texts i could tell she had been drinking. We meet up and go to a small party, we flirt a little then just start hooking up, we make it to my place, start to get into it and she says she doesn't feel good. She runs to the bathroom and starts throwing up. I'm just like fuck and bring her water and sit and talk with her in the bathroom while she's throwing up. It's weird, before i didn't really care about her but she really opened to me and i'm beggining to really like her. The whole time she was telling me to leave, saying she felt bad she was acting like a bitch. Next day was mad ackward as i walked her out and we were both sober. I didn't know how to approach talking to her after so i added her on facebook a couple days later wirh a message telling her not to worry about what happened, and just to not let it happen again next time ;) she replied with: "Thanks for taking care of me! I'm really sorry! I'll have to make sure I eat more than a salad before doing vodka shots next time!" My question is where do i go from here?

Author:  Harem [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 11:30 am ]
Post subject:  Don't let her get away with that!

Candor, in this situation, made her uncomfortable. She's just begging to be teased after a stunt like that. Acting like the grumpy schoolteacher (just don't let it happen again) would have exacerbated the feelings of awkwardness by a lot.

If you really connected with her you have earned the right to be a jokey friend - if one of your guy mates threw up you would bust their balls after wouldnt you? By acting like youre ok with the whole situation you made clear the fact that you haven't built up enough rapport to tease her.

Oh, and i'm not talking about brutal piss-taking, just light-hearted banter.

That of course is speaking retrospectively - from here i would suggest starting from scratch - opening, teasing, push pull ect. Put the incident out of your mind - it went badly so act like it never happened - if she brings it up, perfect! Start the banter.

Harem x

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