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| Author: | Flush1321 [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 1:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Whats with this chick?? |
Ok so heres the story... I'v known this girl for a year or so. She was in a very strong relationship at the time of our meeting and my game was...sad, to say the least so i wasnt about to go blowing everything by being a creeper so i was kind of a distant friend, said hey every now and then, but not always be aound and make it look like I was into her. Well to shorten the story she dumped her BF and some time went by we didnt talk (nothin happned just fell outa contact) then about 3 weeks ago she started texting me out of nowhere! I have never given her my number so i assume she found it from one of my friends that we both know. When i first heard from her i wasnt sure what to make of it till i heard the BF story and all that crap. Well i was like "all right im back in!" so here and there we been texting, and even a blind man can tell shes flirtin hard with me so im gettin all happy n shit and when i say "ya know we havnt seen each other in a while we ought to hang out some time" i get nothin! I dont mean she starts to turn me down, or change the subject, i mean NOTHIN she stops texting me for a day or two. At this point i figure to myself that i was missreadin her or somthing so i blow it off, i dont text her lookin needy cuz that would turn her waaay off to me right well she does it again, the whole..Text me all happy an gitty and mega flirty and SHE offers to hang this time. Again im not lookin needy so i tell her "I dont know last time i brang that up ya blew me off so ill have to think about it" yeah..im thinking YES..but im not gona say that so i give it a day i text her back and tell her ill be free. blah blah blah the day of our "meeting" comes around and she calls me and says she cant make it sorry... So heres what im thinkin...she likes to play with me and im not diggin it...should i give her one more try? ya know strike 3? or should i just give up on it. im maen im not kiddin when i say the girl is an easy 8/10 but on the bitch scale shes right up there too...so any ideas? ~Flush~ |
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| Author: | vizzy [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 1:24 am ] |
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I've had something similar happen to me too. I reckon you should wait a week, call her this time and don't make it so formal. Just say "Hey listen, my friends are meeting up and we're going *somewhere interesting, where she would wanna go*...did you wanna come with?" Once you get her in a social situation, thats when you can start gaming with her I don't think you have anything to lose by going for it again. Here's some comforting words of advice lol: maybe she wasn't ditching you, maybe she really couldn't show up on the "date" that you guys planned... maybe she is interested, i mean if she got your number (and not from you) just to text you after she broke up with her bf. I think you're just thinking negatively. I've done the same thing for a few years of my life. There was so many times when a girl would be looking at me, checking me out, or something and I just wouldn't notice. Hell, I had girls approaching me. But I had no game, so I would say something AFC like, and the girls would lose interest, and I would think..oh their just snobs etc etc. I had many girls who'd be interested in me (but I didn't know at the time)...and I'd be interested in them. Sadly, with no game and low self esteem I would blow it, then think something negatively. So I reckon you should take a chance with it. |
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| Author: | Flush1321 [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 1:49 am ] |
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alright thanks for the words of wisdom lol i really was getting a little on edge with this girl cuz she's one hell of an HB just was confusing the hell outa me. ill give it another go with the invite with friends and see what happens. ill post again with the answer to the invite and hopefuly the goings of night we hang out. thanks again! ~Flush~ |
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