PUA Forum
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

I'm attractive but a loser
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=53838		 Page 1 of 1
Author:  Selbon101 [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 3:32 am ]
Post subject:  I'm attractive but a loser
Hello,

I just recently turned 18 and i love the fact that girls are all around me in abundance. I need help reeling them in though. Not to be obnoxious but i know that i am attractive and i find girls checking me out lot. ex: I just went shopping and while looking for clothes, i saw 2 employees (hb8 and hb7.5) checking me out on several occasions while walking around, also i kept seeing the hb8 in my peripheral vision about every 10 minutes.

When i go to clubs with my friends i find girls checking me out and sometimes pulling me to dance/ grind on them. My problem is pulling them in, I know that i am capable of pulling any girl to make out with me anywhere but at the same time i dont know how to do it, how to walk up to a girl and talk to her with a "dont give a fuck attitude". Also i grew up with 4 girls( 3 sisters) so i kinda know the mindset of girls :D . Help me
Author:  Lucky D [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 3:58 am ]
Post subject: 
build a network... network with the popular, important pple, get good connections. leech pple who are getting somewhere in life, and eventually you will out-do them all!

I'm at a state where i invite girls to music video shoots & shit, for day 2s...

once u got a good network going its just waaay easy...u don even need to aproach no more, u jsut open or get opened cuz the HBs will be a natural part of the daily life...

i say build the network, soon enough you'll be the king ;)
Author:  kasabi [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 5:31 am ]
Post subject: 
The OP already has a "network" . . . he just doesn't know what to do with it.

Build a game. Others can give you advice but only you can build your own game. Take the time to go through the learning process.
Author:  KristallNachte [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 1:37 pm ]
Post subject: 
i'd suggest just reading routines and openers and use them until you get comfortable being more natural about it.

but first rule: ALWAYS APPROACH.

those girls where yo uwere getting clothes, approach them, you could ask them for opinions on the clothes.
Author:  Lucky D [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 10:23 pm ]
Post subject: 
I got a question for Kasabi.. whats an OP?
Author:  Slyke [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 12:23 am ]
Post subject: 
Original Poster, the thread starter.
Author:  Selbon101 [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 4:03 am ]
Post subject: 
Thanks guys for the advice, i really appreciate it.

Kasabi, i like what you said:"build your own game". I think i'll go out, lay my balls out, approach and just go through the trial and error till i get the feel of it

thanks for the advice
Author:  kasabi [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 10:52 pm ]
Post subject: 
^^ You'll always have to deal with trial and error but it's also nice to begin with a reference point for what you'd like to achieve. Begin with a few openers and routines in mind. At first, you might find it difficult to adjust your strategy during the interaction but you'll surely be able to reflect back to every situation and think up positives and negatives. Then you'll just adjust yourself for the next situation. The more you do this, your "reflection, adjustment, and re-execution" periods will shorten, shorten, and shorten until the point that you'll find yourself adjusting during an interaction with a girl. When "reflection, adjustment, and re-execution" occurs in the time it takes you to strike a smile, you'll know you've found yourself a game.

Girls are around you all the time . . . this will come easy for you.
Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/