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| Author: | Mike21 [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 4:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Seeing a girl but I dont think shes very sexual.. advice plz |
Hi guys Well i have began seeing a really attractive girl or young lady considering she is 23 and 2 years older than me. Shes really cool, I get along with her, we have kissed and we seem to be going in the right direction however she seems to be not very sexual. Now this might sound weird but you know when you just get an instinct or a feeling that she isnt really that forward when it comes to this. For instance I tested the waters last week and after one of our dates went well she txt me later in the night asking what i was doing and i said i was in bed but wish she could come share it with me and entertain me.. just to see how she would react. She replied "you cheeky monkey" and then went off the topic. The cheeky monkey part through me a bit because it sounds like something ud say to a 12 year old. We both have the problem that we are living with parents straight out of uni so dont have our own places but im pretty adventurous and enjoy sex anywhere and i like to be open about it. How would you guys approach this and what ways cud i try and see what she wants and if we can take our relationship to the next level. Sorry if this sounds lame i just wanted to get it off my chest Thanks |
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| Author: | Bonita [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 5:07 pm ] |
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Girls can be shy about being sexual because they don't want to embarrass themselves for saying naughty things. What you can do is create an SPAM where sexuality is not only common, but rewarded. The more you say sexual things (without the creeper vibe) the more she will see it is a common thing in the dynamic between you. When she feels it is common, she will begin joining in and when she does, you need to reward her for it. Tell her it is "sexy" when she says _________ or does _________. That will show her that you noticed what she did and you really like it. She will be more comfortable and confident acting sexual if she knows she isn't making a fool of herself. |
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| Author: | rizkay [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 10:46 pm ] |
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don't be too cautious just on her account though. i didn't know i was doing the right thing at the time, but my last long-term gf was a virgin at 26...she was all religious and shit. basically, every date we went out on, i ended up pawing at her. i had no game at that time, but i believe that being more primal with her escalated it. amazing how her sunday mornings changed after a few weeks of this... you could boil down what i'm saying to a kind of tiered/more subtle caveman approach |
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| Author: | Mike21 [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 4:19 pm ] |
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Thanks guys! Well im going around to her house tonight to watch a dvd and her parents wont be in so im guna see what happens! Fingers crossed something happens because i need it to sooner or later lol or ile explode. |
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