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Author:  flake99 [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 4:36 pm ]
Post subject:  girl picks me up

Today, a girl approached ME as I walking down the street. She was walking along, looked up at me and so I smiled at her and then SHE opened ME.
Then she lead the conversation
Then she said the right stuff
Then she got MY number with the intention of meeting up tomorrow.
SHE was the pickup artist.

I feel cheated, I really do and potentially used, seeing as the premise of us meeting up is so i can teach her some graphics stuff. Above all slightly confused.

I was thinking of telling her I'd only meet up with her if she bought me a muffin for lunch, hopefully to get a bit of control back? I need some serious advice and possibly whether to go or not....
Cheers guys :?

Author:  Bonita [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 4:46 pm ]
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Of course you should go (if you are into this girl). I always hear guys say that they would LOVE for a woman to do the legwork and approach them, but then when women do, men get defensive. This woman just made your life so much easier. I suggest going to the date and reestablishing your control there.

If this girl truly is a a good pua, she will understand that she needs to transfer that control back over to you so that you feel confident to make your move. If she is not aware of that, then maybe you two just won't click. Or maybe she just has a masculine style of her own and she will have to find someone that compliments that.

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