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| Author: | #1 Jish [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 9:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Number close on first ever (PUA) attempt!, but.... |
Last week i joined this website I spent 3 hours on here looking at a few things like confidence, body language, routines ect: the next morning i got on the train to go home and sure enough a HB comes and sits next to me so i figured 'what the hell' and recalled all i learned from the last night and it worked! i got loads of IOIs and I ended up with a number and she said she will meet me at the pub this weekend, the problem is...i dont know what the next step is! |
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| Author: | Adonis Spyridon [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 8:46 pm ] |
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I hope you're a fast reader, but you need to check out either "the mystery method" (its a book) or some speed seduction stuff, its all a matter of preference in my opinion. Those are the main two I would suggest, but there are plenty of options. I'm sure you can even find a lot of stuff on here in the different sections. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Oct 15, 2009 6:14 pm ] |
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Arrange a day two where you're with friends, not just the two of you. I like day 2's where there's action going on and plenty of opportunities for kino (touching) such as pubs/bars with pool tables, or one of those new trendy bowling alleys with a bar and music and stuff. Tell her you're meeting some friends and that she should come it's gonna be really fun. DON'T say "do you want to come" or "maybe if you feel like it.." etc. You'll DHV (display higher value) a lot if you've planned a fun evening and she arrives to find you holding court with some of your cool friends. Introduce her to them, and...just have a great time as a group. Find a good opportunity to isolate her after a while "hey let's grab a table somewhere quieter so we can hear each other better" get a couple of drinks and build some comfort. Whereas the conversation before in the group will hopefully have been quite light hearted, a bit random and funny, you can now go a bit deeper. "What's the thing you most want in life...And imagine you had that thing...How would that make you feel" Getting her to talk about stuff like this not only gives you interesting insight into her, but it also puts her into a happy, positive place. She then anchors (associates) you with the positive happy place. Try to find some of her goals and values, and then try to mirror those values "oh yeah that's so true...I was just thinking that the other day" or share those goals "I've always wanted to do that/go there" and then make future plans "we should totally just buy plane tickets tomorrow and do that! why not?" You should be kino escalating (increasing touching) throughout the evening. When you first meet her, it'll be easy enough to take her by the hand or arm to lead her to your friends and introduce her. You can then touch the small of her back when you're talking or leading her to the table/bar, and then when you're sitting down together you can progress to touching her legs. Make sure to NEVER look at where you're touching and do so confidently. You are comfortable touching women and they like it when you touch them. When you kino escalate and she is not comfortable and backs away, freeze her out by ceasing all contact. I.e. if you get to her leg and she is uncomfortable, don't go backwards to holding hands, just stop touching, change the subject and then later re-initiate. Always be the first to break kino, e.g. when you first hold her hand, after a minute or so before she lets go, drop her hand as you look over somewhere or get distracted by something else. Always play by your own rules. If you have kino escalated successfully then after some comfort building together you can go in for a kiss. I like the triangle method, where you look at one eye, then the other, then down to her mouth, then to the first eye, and then lean in. Don't have a theory on why this works, but it's worked for me. A small light kiss at first, and then escalate to tongue is best - you don't want to lunge at her and stick your tongue down her throat right away! Since this is your first day two I think this is probably more than enough advice. I would say the important points are to bring her into a fun exciting world that you've created and planned and lead her through the escalating of the interaction with relaxed confidence. Looking forward to seeing a field report, good luck! |
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