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| Author: | Roadblkx [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 1:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Calling this girl - flirting over phone? |
here's what has happened so far.. -talked to her for a while 3 nights ago in her car about random crap - I flirted a little bit we seemed to both have a great time just doing small talk. Not much kino or anything but a lot of verbal flirting. -tried to get her to come to an organization I'm a part of cause she used to come and she told me yeah thats great -called her 2 nights ago to finalize plans and we talked for about 10 minutes. she had to go but she told me to call her later that night I said i was too busy. -we hung out a little bit at the event just small talk but it was pretty fun. Anyways, I work with her I bag groceries at the grocery store for her (gimme a break Im only 17) and talk to her a little bit but dont really get to flirt too much. I am worried I am already in the friend zone. Anyways, I think I'm gonna call her up tonight just to chat there was random stuff we didnt get to finish at work cause I had to go. Just chat and get to know her better. Anyways, what are some good ways to flirt with her over the phone and get her interested? Girls dont normally intimidate me but shes real pretty and has had tons of BFs and Ive never really been a ladies man. Just lemme know how to approach the phone call |
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| Author: | Roadblkx [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 1:59 am ] |
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anybody? its getting later |
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| Author: | Roadblkx [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 3:54 pm ] |
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did I word the question wrong? |
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| Author: | Chim [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 4:23 pm ] |
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Without any great detail, my advice would be to see her in person if possible. Long phone chats don't really allow for much in the way of kino or any of the other stuff which will help avoid the LJBF scenario. As i say, there's not much to go on but either try and get her to go out with you to do something (low pressure aka something more activity based i guess rather than a high pressure meal and film date, unless you think she'll go for it) or try and get a group of you together so you can progress in-directly. Hope this helps. |
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| Author: | Pecos McLeod [ Tue Oct 13, 2009 1:43 am ] |
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Ok. First off, if you've already been LJBF'd you need to move on. The only people with the skills to get out of an LJBF are the one's who never get into it in the first place. The standard advice is don't see or talk to her for a couple months then start over. If you work with her obviously not an option. Let's focus on what you did wrong for future women... or girls if you're 17 I guess. Phone conversations are a bad thing, make them brief. Girls chat on the phone to their friends or to guys they're already dating. First off, you're using up all the things you can talk about in person. More importantly, there's no body language on the phone. No IOI's, no kino (unless you can touch through the phone). Keep phone calls to around 1-2 minutes. The point of the call is to set up your next meeting, not get to know each other. |
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