next-steps:
Setup a meeting, Ask her straight up if she described you as her ideal man.
If your into her and she's getting physical... just go further from there.
(Double post
)
| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| From a Friend to something else? https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=53511 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | Mark300zx [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 12:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | From a Friend to something else? |
Hi all, Any help on this one would be appreciated!!! Potted history I was friends with a couple for 5 years, they split up and she then rings me up for a drink! I go out for a drink with girl, as friend twice, she flirts with me big style, lots of her making phys contact, and drop hints about the next man she wants to date which to be honest describes me to Tee! I think it is a sure thing and this is where I drop the clanger, I send flowers saying how about being more than friends, get a text back saying not after a relationship!!!!! Any help on the next stage of the game plan would be aprreciated? Mark |
|
| Author: | Truncheon [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 1:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
next-steps: Setup a meeting, Ask her straight up if she described you as her ideal man. If your into her and she's getting physical... just go further from there. (Double post )
|
|
| Author: | Exerio [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 2:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Quote: next-steps:
No, no, no and no. Do not do that. The reason why is that seriously, if someone drops you a clue and you need them to confirm it, what does that say about you? If I give a clue like that to a girl and I have to confirm it afterward I will rather think:Setup a meeting, Ask her straight up if she described you as her ideal man. If your into her and she's getting physical... just go further from there. (Double post )Wtf, is she stupid? Playfully tease her with it: - You know you described me as your ideal man? Damn, I must really be a cool guy:) - Exerio |
|
| Author: | fatalclaw [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 2:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
lol i actualy forgot what i was going to tell u... oh yeah, she wants just sex ! not a relationship |
|
| Author: | Truncheon [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 2:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Quote: Quote: next-steps:
No, no, no and no. Do not do that. The reason why is that seriously, if someone drops you a clue and you need them to confirm it, what does that say about you? If I give a clue like that to a girl and I have to confirm it afterward I will rather think:Setup a meeting, Ask her straight up if she described you as her ideal man. If your into her and she's getting physical... just go further from there. (Double post )Wtf, is she stupid? Playfully tease her with it: - You know you described me as your ideal man? Damn, I must really be a cool guy:) - Exerio Besides the tips of Exerio, you might always also tease her, on a so called manhunt, at which you come out as the alpha and win the game  .
|
|
| Author: | Truncheon [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 2:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Quote: lol i actualy forgot what i was going to tell u...
Sex is bad!! REALLY BAD whahhaaa oh yeah, she wants just sex ! not a relationship 
|
|
| Author: | Exerio [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 2:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Of course Mr. Shade. But I go direct, teasing is more like in-direct to me. Anyways, you want to have it smooth, and the smoothest thing is to make assumptions, instead of having to ask. She never rejects you before she says no;) |
|
| Author: | Truncheon [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 2:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Quote: Of course Mr. Shade. But I go direct, teasing is more like in-direct to me.
Direct/In-direct the approach choosen depends on the situation we're in Anyways, you want to have it smooth, and the smoothest thing is to make assumptions, instead of having to ask. She never rejects you before she says no;)  .smooth or rocking, i don't care, as long as my goal gets pursuit. No means yes right 
|
|
| Author: | Mark300zx [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 6:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Have got to admit I am into her, and yes sex would be a good thing  Have also got to admit this has stumped me, I was thinking this was a definite thing! So the next step is I presume another meeting as friends, try to get rid of the friend label and has anyone got any recommended reading on how to do this? |
|
| Author: | Exerio [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Kino, tease and escalate... all you need to know:) - Exerio |
|
| Author: | Mark300zx [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 11:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Quote: Kino, tease and escalate... all you need to know:)
Not sure if Kinos are a bit too early, tell me more about the teasing and escalation?
- Exerio |
|
| Author: | Mark300zx [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 9:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Update, just had a text reply to an email I sent 4 days ago, how long should I leave it before I reply? |
|
| Author: | keruli [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 10:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Hmm the general lines of those email and text might be usefull might be usefull. If u like us to 'wing' it ; simply the fact that she replies with a text on a mail indicates she expects a "quicker" responce , i would say 2-3 days (leaning towards 2). |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|