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| Author: | 710Taylor710 [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 3:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Out of LTR, new to town, yet stuck in total AFC-dom |
Thanks for reading, this is my first post. Just got out of a LTR and moved to a new area where I know no one. Trying to break out of my shell and meet people -- and ideally sleep with them at some point. Trying to set realistic goals. Tonight I went out solo to a bar (a first, big move for me) and talked to 5 women. I am generally very quiet/shy but made a solid attempt to take this baby step. I consider the night a success, considering I at least met a few randoms. The reason for this is that I want to be able to assess real life issues, not just the ones in my head which may or may not exist. I don't think I am effectively implementing any PUA tactics. In fact, I pretty much just approached the women and started talking to them. I was able to hold the conversation until it would fade, at which point I would excuse myself and walk around. I definitely did not pick up any vibes of sincere attraction, but credit myself for at least starting somewhere! Any tips for my situation? Much appreciated! |
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| Author: | Foxtrot 5 [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 7:06 am ] |
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Congrats! Considering your shy and you went out and talked to 5 random girls...that's a pretty good start. Just keep at it. Every night just add one more routine, opener, story, whatever. If you want a more flirty and sexual response use a cocky and funny attitude and get in a sexual state |
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| Author: | keruli [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 8:38 pm ] |
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Congratz, Not only with overcoming your shyness a little , as Foxtrot pointed out, but also for for stating your goals / expectations honest and cristal clear. From the moment u wrote this post u are no longer an AFC , freshly out of an LTR ... no, u sir , are a man with a plan! Unfortunately , it isnt a gameplan ... yet , I assume u are familliar with the standard works about picking up women DD , MM etc. Especially MM desscribes the stages in a conversation in order to create that spark u are looking for ... attracktion. Try using it to give your game a bit more "direction". Keruli |
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| Author: | 710Taylor710 [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 9:32 pm ] |
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Thanks man. Maybe just a technicality, but I would still consider myself AFC. By that I mean, not a PUA. I know MM is Mystery Method (I know nothing about it, where can I find some info?), but what is DD? That's just what I'm looking for though. I can "open", and in the past week since I moved here/became single, have talked to about 15 random women from anywhere to 30 seconds to 10 minutes. You're spot on, I have a plan but not a solid method of execution, or, gameplan. Been 3+ years since I've had to work to make a woman attracted to me (and I sucked at it then too), so it is not natural. Where do you suggest I go for this "direction", could you send me a link or something? Thanks |
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