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Author:  d.humper [ Fri Oct 09, 2009 6:22 am ]
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Hey guys, up till now, I've mostly been dealing with night/club game, but lately I've decided to try some day game at college. I'm still pretty shy, but I do get myself to appraoch sometimes.

A few days ago, I was sittin gin class with my buddy and we noticed this cute girl sitting pretty far away. We didn't really do anything until the next class (wich was 2 days after that).

I was scared to approach, so I kind of got my buddy's (also my housemate) support: I made a bet, if I go and talk to her my buddy/housemate would make me pasta, if I got her number, my housemate would make me dinner 2 times. My buddy had no idea what I know, he thought I wouldn't have the balls to go up to her. I knew approaching is the easy part, but I had my eyes on the 2nd dinneras well.

What happened was, right after class, while she was walking out, Itapped her on the back, I introduced myself (she had a confused look) then we kind of chatted about the class, and then I asked her "So what are you into? Do you play any sports?" (becaus she dressed kind of sportily). She said she did taekwondo, and at this point I was extremely happy because I had done tkd for 11 years, we could definately chat about that. At this point we were walking out of class and she said she had to go to the bathroom (I know she wasn't trying to run from me, because in the previous class, I noticed her walking to the bathroom right aferclass too).

It was mad awkward then because all I had in my mind was to get her number and get the grand prize. We had only chatted for around 50 seconds max, but I didn't kno what to do... my mind froze and I asked for her number. like straight up just asked her. She was confused, and after a few more awkward seconds, she said "let's just talk on monday". I was relieved because I had no idea how to end this, she walked into the bathroom after that and I just left.

If it wasn't for that 2nd bet, it would've been perfect, we got off to a good start, we found sth in common, and I clda just said ttyl and talk to her some other day, but no I fucked it up.

Now I need to know, what is the best course of action? Should I continue saying hi and chatting with her, ignoring the phone thing, or should I straght up tell her I acted weird and asked for her number, because I was too shy to talk to her so I made a bet, and that bet fucked me over? Mind you, she isn't one of those HB10 bitches, she is more of a nice girl, so me telling her I was too shy without a bet probably wo'nt fuck my chances.

helpp!
Author:  Kieran Black [ Fri Oct 09, 2009 6:49 am ]
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If I was you I wouldn't talk to her on Monday. Don't avoid her or anything if she comes and talks to you then that's okay but you don't want to get stuck 'playing her game'.

If I was in your situation next time I see her I would try and play it really cool.

Maybe go up to her a do a fightin stance 'KeeAhhh!' or If she's alone

or in a group situation maybe make a joke about her being able to kick your ass

or hold your books up to your face and whiper 'don't hurt me I'll be good'.

I would use what I had in common with her to build rapport, she obviously has a passion for it.
Author:  Rome-EO [ Fri Oct 09, 2009 7:16 am ]
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if i were in your spot which i have defintily fucked up a set or two in the 4 years ive been doing this i would suggest playing down the hole number thing less you talk about it and more report built in other area's more likely she is to forgive and forget a fuck up. 2ndly DO NOT TELL HER YOU HAD A BET ON HER no matter how you play this your either an ass hole or a beta... unless you have some mad skills and can convince her its ok being a peice of meat... i would talk to her monday act like everythings cool kinda take her up on the hole thing act as though it was an invite i wouldnt go to crazy with:

Maybe go up to her a do a fightin stance 'KeeAhhh!' or If she's alone
or in a group situation maybe make a joke about her being able to kick your ass
or hold your books up to your face and whiper 'don't hurt me I'll be good'.

not that those wouldnt work later, but she has known you for about 50 seconds and you kinda wanna act normallish after the hole number fuck up... but its not all bad you completed your a1 section and are working on building her attraction to you some i would suggest running some dhv stories on her with your tkd over all you really need to pull more info outside of just tkd to build some more connections with her but not bad for 50 seconds worth of work.. good luck let me know how it goes.
Author:  Visionxxxxxx [ Fri Oct 09, 2009 9:29 am ]
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youre in class with her right? youre in a perfect position to watch for IOI's.

On monday do not approach, try to watch out for any IOI's while in class...if you made even the slightest impact on her in that 50 seconds she will be glancing your way. it doesnt sound like you made an impression at all but who knows, there is a chance that she is attracted to you physically anyway.. if she gives you IOI's...approach her after class, tease her and be confident about it. stop caring about what shes going to think of you...you dont need her approval at all mate. if she doesnt give IOI's then wait a day or two and then re-approach. once again tease and have a fun with a care-free attitude.

most importantly...dont take it too seriously! (easier said than done...but stop thinking about it)
Author:  d.humper [ Sat Oct 10, 2009 2:33 am ]
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One thing though, it's a huge lecture all, atlesat 200-300 people, i know where she sits, she might know where i sat last time (i sat inthe front row cuz I knew i wanted to aproaach her afte class), but it was still really far away, it's hard for anything to happen if i don't make it happen.

But yea I'll play it cool, I do'nt know though my day-game experiences have been very mild and limited, never fucked up this bad.
Author:  Visionxxxxxx [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 6:39 pm ]
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the fact that you are in the same class makes it an ideal situational opening opportunity.. put yourself in her proximity and ask her what she thought of the class...then tease her. lifes too short...while in college make the most of it, you have girls around you all day long its a godsend!
Author:  d.humper [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 1:08 am ]
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the fact that you are in the same class makes it an ideal situational opening opportunity.. put yourself in her proximity and ask her what she thought of the class...then tease her. lifes too short...while in college make the most of it, you have girls around you all day long its a godsend!
Hmm I'm not sure if you understoodmy post correctly, I alreay approached her, the first approach is done with and I did somewhat mess up. I can definately approach her again, but I just need a plan to recover, that's it.
Author:  Visionxxxxxx [ Tue Oct 13, 2009 4:01 pm ]
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Hmm I'm not sure if you understood my post correctly, I alreay approached her, the first approach is done with and I did somewhat mess up. I can definately approach her again, but I just need a plan to recover, that's it.
read my previous post, the 3rd one up..that is the 'recovery' plan i suggested.

and then my last post (the one where you thought i misunderstood) i was merely implying to re-open with a situation opener...easy as pie when youre in her class. you also mentioned you may be sitting faaaar away from her so might be hard to get to speak to her...hence my comment about putting yourself in proximity, plan a way to do this. my second statement was off topic simply implying to have a field day with other girls too....in college theyre everywhere! I wish i was in college again knowing what i know now. Make the most of it mate.[/quote]
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