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Author:  Raptor.45 [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 5:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Height
I know that being tall isn't that important when picking up girls, its mostly game. But what about when you're shorter than the girl? I'm 5'5" and am shorter than a significant amount of girls. I'd say I'm shorter than around 40% of them. Around half of the girls who are taller than me are only by an inch or two.

I've heard that most girls don't even consider guys shorter than them. I've hooked up with two girls who were about 1-2 inches taller than me so I know its not impossible. But girls who are 3-4 or even more inches taller than me seem impossible and I feel like its not even worth gaming them. Finally I notice that girls tend to gravitate towards taller guys at parties, even if they're otherwise not that attractive.

Anyone else around my height (around 5'6" or shorter) have any advice/personal experiences to share?

Besides my height I would say I look good. I work out a lot and am in good shape. Also I'm 18 and in college.
Author:  BadolzoN [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 5:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Height
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I know that being tall isn't that important when picking up girls, its mostly game. But what about when you're shorter than the girl? I'm 5'5" and am shorter than a significant amount of girls. I'd say I'm shorter than around 40% of them. Around half of the girls who are taller than me are only by an inch or two.

I've heard that most girls don't even consider guys shorter than them. I've hooked up with two girls who were about 1-2 inches taller than me so I know its not impossible. But girls who are 3-4 or even more inches taller than me seem impossible and I feel like its not even worth gaming them. Finally I notice that girls tend to gravitate towards taller guys at parties, even if they're otherwise not that attractive.

Anyone else around my height (around 5'6" or shorter) have any advice/personal experiences to share?

Besides my height I would say I look good. I work out a lot and am in good shape. Also I'm 18 and in college.
Height is like looks, it's an initial value setter.

I'm 5'7-5'8 and I hate it. (also 18)

If you're tall girls will respect you more (smaller people tend to be looked down upon as if they were kids)

So if you're shorter, act taller.
Author:  Pan@che [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 6:17 pm ]
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Hi Rapor.45

I'm 6'4" and in good shape and those two things together have never got me any success. If I open with low energy or bad body language I bomb just like anyone else.

In my experience, being tall helps like being toned helps or like being funny helps. Girls respond to it because it makes them feel secure. If you can make a girl feel secure despite your height then you've flicked the same attraction switch, you've just got to language it instead of demonstrating it.

Panache
Author:  jurupa [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 8:49 am ]
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In my experience, being tall helps like being toned helps or like being funny helps. Girls respond to it because it makes them feel secure. If you can make a girl feel secure despite your height then you've flicked the same attraction switch, you've just got to language it instead of demonstrating it.
Very true indeed. Tho I like exploiting the social aspect of being tall tho. In some ways I find it easier to game girls when I use the social power the public tends to give us tall guys.
Author:  unknown1647 [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 2:54 pm ]
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Cmon breh, your frame is completely effed up. Most girls that look like models arent goin out with taller guys, their goin out with shorter guys (mostly because they have low self-esteem, and short guys know how to spit game), but it has nothing to do with your height unless YOU make it have to do with your height. Im, 5'7 and its has never been a problem for me. It used to when i didnt have these tools of a pua to use, but once you master frame control, your height wont bother you that much.
Author:  jurupa [ Thu Oct 08, 2009 12:50 am ]
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Cmon breh, your frame is completely effed up. Most girls that look like models arent goin out with taller guys, their goin out with shorter guys (mostly because they have low self-esteem, and short guys know how to spit game), but it has nothing to do with your height unless YOU make it have to do with your height. Im, 5'7 and its has never been a problem for me. It used to when i didnt have these tools of a pua to use, but once you master frame control, your height wont bother you that much.
Granted I have not seen that many models, but the ones I have seen have all been with tall guys. :?
Author:  rizkay [ Thu Oct 08, 2009 1:38 am ]
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i'm 5'7 and this has been an inner game issue for me that i'm getting better and better with.

there's this dude i know from college - he's 5'1. and g-money always, and i mean always, has had a 9 for a girlfriend for the 12 yrs i've known this guy. they all were taller than him. i've never heard this guy talk about his height beyond getting some clothes altered.

granted, this is an exception to the rule, but if your frame is fucked up - yeah, i think that's a lot of it. we're not talking about picking up models and doing lines off them, i think we're just talking about having a better frame and not focusing on height.
Author:  expat_of_love [ Thu Oct 08, 2009 8:32 am ]
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As a tall guy I often have girls tell me that the only guy they could never date was one shorter than they were. I think that if you are taller than she is when she is wearing heels you are fine. That seems to be what the deciding factor is.
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