Okay so I've been spending the whole of the past 7 months trying to get with this girl and I finally got my chance 2 days ago. I asked her to come with me to play pool (but we were joined by a mutual friend - also a girl - so it was a bit akward). We then went to watch a movie. I was sat in the middle with my target on my right. Throughout the movie I was making her laugh, and I got a little cheeky with her without letting the other girl realise. I was throwing various sweets down her cleavage and when she was enjoying it I knew she was comfortable with it. She accidentlly spilled something on her top and I offered to help clean it lol. I went for some touching as well (maybe I shouldnt have done that?) Anyway after the movie, our mutual friend went home and me and my target went into the train station to wait for the train home but she then asked me 'Do you want to go home now?' I said no and suggested we get out of the station and walk around for a bit. We did. I then took her to behind our college parking bay, started pulling her towards me and putting my arm around her/teasing her. (Note at this point she was complying with my pulling her inwards).
I then went in for the kiss.....
She stepped back and said 'Woah... I'm kinda seeing some one'
At this point I was like what the hell, she let me play with her cleavage, she didnt want to end her time with me, yet now she tells me shes kind of seeing someone?!
I then just smiled and said 'Well you should have said something'
She replies: 'I want to but I don't want Lisa (mutual friend) to know, it will be akward'
I said I understand and then we started kissing (she put her tongue in my mouth first. I felt like a big man. This went on for 10 minutes. I stroked her hair and neck and all the other things.
So anyway there was a nice little spark between us going on. When we went back to the station I didnt want to take the same train as her (maybe i thought that would make me more of a player? I dunno...)
I get home, and she texted me first saying 'thnx 4 leaving me all alone on the train lol'
I texted back with a joke about the movie and how Im glad aliens didnt eat her on her way home. She texted back asking if there were any more 'sessions' with me available. I took that as an interest for more.
My question is.... What do I do about this other guy shes 'kinda seeing'??
Am I lowering my self value by allowing myself to kiss her whilst knowing im kinda sharing her?
Why did she let me do all those things to her? Am I in with a chance to perhaps remove the other guy out of the equation?
I really need your help guys!!! thanks alot for your time.
