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Author:  GuitarLord [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 3:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Don't know what to talk in first few minutes after opening?
Well, I'm relatively new to the game...
basically I can open but the problem is I don't know what to say next... so I open girl, but then after I open her my biggest problem is NEXT FEW MINUTES... If I come to comfort phase great, I can talk in attraction phase because it's more natural talk, so I am good in that phase...
But first few minutes are hell to me, and sometimes even there is this awkward silence where I think "say something, say something, what to say, you gotta say something now!!" but I usually just cant find anything to say, and girl looses interest because I stop talking or even I go away...
Don't get me wrong, I am very communicative guy, I can approach girl, and if I find my way to comfort, I can talk to girl hours without stopping about million subjects, I just have problem with this first 5-10 minutes after opening...
So what do you usually do after you open, can someone give me some nice ideas for everyday situation what should I say next after opening.. Maybe some patterns and routines? If so, where can I find them??...
I usually do this in clubs, if that info helps :) but I don't want to use something boring after opening like: "hey, do you come often" or "do you like this band". Someone help? :)

Thanks,

Nik
Author:  Johnny B. [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 5:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Don't know what to talk in first few minutes after openi
Quote:
Well, I'm relatively new to the game...
basically I can open but the problem is I don't know what to say next... so I open girl, but then after I open her my biggest problem is NEXT FEW MINUTES... If I come to comfort phase great, I can talk in attraction phase because it's more natural talk, so I am good in that phase...
But first few minutes are hell to me, and sometimes even there is this awkward silence where I think "say something, say something, what to say, you gotta say something now!!" but I usually just cant find anything to say, and girl looses interest because I stop talking or even I go away...
Don't get me wrong, I am very communicative guy, I can approach girl, and if I find my way to comfort, I can talk to girl hours without stopping about million subjects, I just have problem with this first 5-10 minutes after opening...
So what do you usually do after you open, can someone give me some nice ideas for everyday situation what should I say next after opening.. Maybe some patterns and routines? If so, where can I find them??...
I usually do this in clubs, if that info helps :) but I don't want to use something boring after opening like: "hey, do you come often" or "do you like this band". Someone help? :)

Thanks,

Nik
Try this:
1. Opener+ little teasing concerning about their answers
2.Hooking ( " where do you guys know each other"? now you have " hooks " where to grab later if the conversation energy level drops. For example they answer that " we both live in CALIFORNIA and first met when we went to the same SUMMER SCHOOL "--> the hooks here would be California and Summer school )
3. DHV ( you can use a story which can be a opener or you can play games with her like a " cube ", " 5 lies game ", " best friend test " or " a masturbation test " )

[ Johnny B ]
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