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Author:  jfzaki [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 3:59 am ]
Post subject:  I'm worse than AFC ... how can I change?? need urgent help!

Hi guys

I went to a club tonight with the intention of picking up anyone....I was unable gather myself and overcome my lack of confidence and talk to a girl. I entered the club 10.30 ... and till 2 am I didn't speak to a single girl!!

what do I do??? guide me pleaaaaaaaaase...

anyone from glasgow uk to help me sarge and hit the ground running??? want to speed up my learning curve....

Author:  KristallNachte [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 4:13 am ]
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just try again, get comfortable in the club. next time don't go with the intent to even practice game. just get comfortable, and loosen up a bit.

Author:  Calliber [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 4:27 am ]
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It's normal to be nervous, everyone feels AA at the beginning. Next time you go out, dont go out with the purpose of getting a girl, just go out to have fun at a club or with your mates, and as KristallNachte said, loosen up, this is supposed to be fun!

Author:  tarzan15 [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 8:16 am ]
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Have you tried the newbie games? Read a couple books? Have canned openings ready?

Try talking to random people, and see if you can get them to open up. The key is confidence. Not everybody succeeds on their first night out.

Author:  jurupa [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:46 am ]
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Instead of having the goal/intention of picking up a girl. Have the goal/intention of opening one girl instead. You need to take baby steps so that you can build your confidence and get over your AA.

Author:  jfzaki [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 11:18 am ]
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i went with one of my mates and we were sort of just looking around and moving about....even when girls looked at us... I made no moves..... i'm still reading in the newbie section ....i'll check newbie games.....

to be honest... i went out with this intention because i need a woman in my bed soon .. just feeling a little ho**y : :lol: :D

I think I actually feel more comfortable when I meet girls in the street but again never openned up although i'd say i get very tempted more than when i was at the club yesterday.....

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