PUA Forum
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

Girls are intimidated by me.
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=52571
Page 1 of 2

Author:  thelenzel [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 11:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Girls are intimidated by me.

So I finally talked to a girl at school I think is hot.
After talking for a while, she confessed to me she was intimidated to come and talk to me. Because she would always establish eye contact with me, and I would never look, and when I'd look, I'd just look at her for a split second as if it was nothing.
Then I was going back to my memory, and I realize its true, I am like the only guy at school that only looks at a girl, and doesn't sees her for a lot of time.
She said she thought I was this kind of rockstar that had all girls, so thats why I never looked at any girl at school.
Has anyone had this happen ?
I never even imagined the thought of it!

Author:  David~ [ Fri Sep 25, 2009 1:17 am ]
Post subject: 

Happened to me all the time.

Chill out.

Make fun of yourself.

Be a chode.

Author:  Jav [ Fri Sep 25, 2009 3:57 pm ]
Post subject: 

I love it.


make 'em blush

Author:  BadolzoN [ Fri Sep 25, 2009 6:28 pm ]
Post subject: 

Yeah, it makes it hard to get girls who are immature some times.

I'm so attractive that 95% of girls are afraid to talk to me.

Author:  expat_of_love [ Fri Sep 25, 2009 9:42 pm ]
Post subject: 

Quote:
Yeah, it makes it hard to get girls who are immature some times.

I'm so attractive that 95% of girls are afraid to talk to me.
I know that feeling. Girls always blush around me and my good looks. Maybe you and I could get together and start a club or something.

Author:  BadolzoN [ Sat Sep 26, 2009 2:33 am ]
Post subject: 

Quote:
Quote:
Yeah, it makes it hard to get girls who are immature some times.

I'm so attractive that 95% of girls are afraid to talk to me.
I know that feeling. Girls always blush around me and my good looks. Maybe you and I could get together and start a club or something.
Haha, for sure. :P

I have a wingman in training I think.

We need a third!

:)

Author:  magnum45 [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:05 am ]
Post subject: 

She is afraid to come talk to you because she doesn't feel safe or desperate enough to come talk to you.

If you want to change that you have to be less intimidating.

You should dress less fancy, and "peacock".

If you see a hot girl you should look at her and keep eye contact. That is very powerful.

I think it is all bullshit, but do it if you want to become more approachable.

I think the best advice is to not get a ego boost by having a girl worship you for not looking at her. Seriously man. Respect yourself more, you are better than that.

Author:  magnum45 [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:07 am ]
Post subject: 

I have never had a girl approach me unless a friend was introducing her to me.

Maybe years ago when I used to go to bars and clubs a lot some girl would comment on me, but I always had to look friendly and hold the eye contact. If it is not natural the girl won't feel comfortable. Don't do that hideous stare that creeps girls out. Just dont' care man. It isn't worth it.

Author:  Tigra [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 3:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls are intimidated by me.

Quote:
So I finally talked to a girl at school I think is hot.
After talking for a while, she confessed to me she was intimidated to come and talk to me. Because she would always establish eye contact with me, and I would never look, and when I'd look, I'd just look at her for a split second as if it was nothing.
Then I was going back to my memory, and I realize its true, I am like the only guy at school that only looks at a girl, and doesn't sees her for a lot of time.
She said she thought I was this kind of rockstar that had all girls, so thats why I never looked at any girl at school.
Has anyone had this happen ?
I never even imagined the thought of it!
Yeah dude it happens, though it isnt necessarily a bad thing. Its just a natural DHV spike.

cheers :twisted:

Author:  BadolzoN [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 6:39 pm ]
Post subject: 

Quote:
She is afraid to come talk to you because she doesn't feel safe or desperate enough to come talk to you.

If you want to change that you have to be less intimidating.

You should dress less fancy, and "peacock".

If you see a hot girl you should look at her and keep eye contact. That is very powerful.

I think it is all bullshit, but do it if you want to become more approachable.

I think the best advice is to not get a ego boost by having a girl worship you for not looking at her. Seriously man. Respect yourself more, you are better than that.
Wrong - she feels you're too high value for her.

If an AFC sees a 5 set of playboy models, do you think he will EVER approach them? NO, he's scared shitless.

I am a theoretical playboy model, girls will only approach me if I know one of their friends/ she'll tell her friend she likes me and in turn her friend will tell me - fat girl/ugly girl(usually the fat ones aren't afraid of approaching since they know they have no chance anyways)

I've had literally 5-6 girls I've hooked up with tell me when they first saw me and the social proof I had surrounding me that they were scared shitless to talk to me because I'm so attractive.

Therefore, I will conclude it is NOT because I give people "weird stares" etc

Same with any guy.

Who the fuck stares people down? Lol

Who gives people mean looks?

I smile and am always cheerful.

Author:  KristallNachte [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 6:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls are intimidated by me.

Quote:
Has anyone had this happen ?
happened to me a few times.

some hot girls in my class for months and i didn't see them at all. then i see them, start talking, and find out that they were both intimidated as well as jealous of the other girls they saw me with.

Author:  Grape [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 6:52 pm ]
Post subject: 

Girls get anxiety as much as guys do. =]

It's your job to make them comfortable =]

Author:  BadolzoN [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:10 pm ]
Post subject: 

Quote:
Girls get anxiety as much as guys do. =]

It's your job to make them comfortable =]
I love this theory.

Touch my shoulder pleaseeee

Author:  Ravencroft [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:42 pm ]
Post subject: 

Attraction and comfort at the same time is ideal

Author:  BadolzoN [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 10:14 pm ]
Post subject: 

Quote:
Attraction and comfort at the same time is ideal
Stick your finger in her elbow.

Page 1 of 2 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/