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Author:  fratss [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 8:27 am ]
Post subject:  eye contact
Lately I'm focusing on eye contact. I found out how the professor is looking right into every students eyes during class, and I noticed the reactions of students.. They immediately look away! It's a funny game to play if you're in school, to win the eye contact battle with the teacher!! good for your skills.

But anyway.. I have this sex relation with a girl for a couple of weeks now.. It's going pretty good and yesterday she said she's addicted to me. And I like her, for sex, and she knows it. So we made it an official sexrelation.. awesome..

The thing is, when we're in bed after having sex I tend to look her deep in the eyes.. just staring at them, because she has those beautiful eyes.. but I'm doing it subconciously! She's telling me all the time: Don't stare into my eyes all the time, it makes me insecure! She says my eyes go all wide..

I just can't figure out if it's a bad thing or not.. It isn't that bad, because she is addicted to me, just one of those small things I need a good opinion about! Let me know! thanks guys.
Author:  magnum45 [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 8:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: eye contact
You can not make someone insecure. She is just insecure. Which is probably why she is sleeping with you in the first place.

You should stop your relationship with her because if not you will grow to care for her and end up in a serious relationship. A relationship based on sex. By the time you are 25 you wont care about sex as much, and you will be living in hell.

You need to be single without a women until you can pull a women that you would want to marry.

Don't be a smuck. Just because marriage is serious doesn't mean you can't be. Life is to short to sit here and fuck a girl who just wants to feel better about herself. You are to good for that.

Sincerely,
Kevin Kerr
Author:  fratss [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 11:32 am ]
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hmm thanks for your reply, but I think you're missing the point here. ofcours she's insecure.. every girl is insecure. You made me think about it though!

We are in a sexrelation or are fuckbuddies. Anyway in my world it means we don't have any responsibilities to eachother. We just meet up for sex sometimes. She knows the deal and I know the deal.. Maybe it sounds a little flat, but it's great. We both are completely free to do whatever we want. Probably it won't last long, but I don't care because there are many other girls in my life and I know there are many guys in hers, because she has the looks, is smart and has a good personality.

Maybe if I was a really religious person I would've handled it differently, but I'm not :), I don't think having sexrelation is a sin as long as you both feel good about it. Sex (safe) is fun and healthy.

And you're right about pulling a woman and marry her eventually, but first I want to have a lot of fun with a lot of other women and the right one will cross my way and I'll be able to make her my wife. I try to be gentleman by being honest to her about what I want and I won't ever mislead her.
Author:  magnum45 [ Sat Sep 26, 2009 7:31 am ]
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Thats really nice dude. It seems to me like you have a good head on your shoulders. Why do you just hook up for sex? Dont you feel anything for her? Have you asked her if she feels anything for you?

I don't understand how you can just continually have sexual relations with a women and neither of you feel like you want more.

Everey single girl I have been with has falling for me and wanted more. They only sleep with me because they like me so much. I just don't understand. Even when I was in high school at age 17 I was banging sluts all the time. They all cared of me. Some of them where so used to being treated like a whore that they had no problem with me using them.

This one girl named Beth comes to mind. She took anti depressants to keep her mind stable. She was O.K. with being used. She was just like that. I don't know. I never cared about her and even though she liked me a lot she never got needy. I think it is because she could take a pill and forget about how she felt towards me.
Author:  fratss [ Sat Sep 26, 2009 10:35 am ]
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I'm pretty sure she is really attracted to me, but there are no 'wanting more issues' because from the first moment I met her, I made clear to her that I'm not looking for a relationship. My life is way too busy to handle a relationship, because I'm away a lot. By making it clear to her, it isn't even an issue to her mind, she made her choice having sex with me with the knowledge that we're unable to have a relationship. It just won't happen with my current lifestyle.

When we're together, I threat her like a princess, but I'm the alpha prince (no family tho.. :P). I'm not treating her like a whore. I have a lot of fun with her and I love being around her. Maybe after my top-sport career, I'll be able to have a relationship with her. But that will take a while..
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I don't understand how you can just continually have sexual relations with a women and neither of you feel like you want more.
I guess I don't, because I date several women. I always make sure that she knows we're unable to have a relationship. She needs to find out by herself if she wants to continue meeting up. Sometimes they meet another guy who wants a relationship and I always respond happy for her!> that's because I am happy for her! But when they break up, I'm the first person they'll tell :)..

Bottom-line, I think everybody should be honest to a girl before they have sex, if they don't want a relation. If you make it sure, you'll eliminate a lot of problems in the future. Most of the times it attracts girls even more if you're able to be honest to her. If she still wants more, you shouldn't meet up, because you will hurt her feelings more and more. That way you won't leave her better then you found her.
Author:  magnum45 [ Sun Sep 27, 2009 8:24 am ]
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Alright man. It seems like you know what you want, and everything is in line with you. Did you have a question because I forgot if you did?
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