| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| A little help with opening https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=52092 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | mercer [ Wed Sep 16, 2009 4:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | A little help with opening |
Heres the background. Got a female friend whos old enough to be my mum, we are just friends and chat to her about all sorts of stuff. One day she said she knows somone perfect for me!! So she told me about this girl and arranges with her for us all to meet up and have a drink so that we can meet. So about 4 of us go to a bar and this girl comes for a drink but has to go for a meal with friends, she asks us to hang around and wait for her but we all had to get back. Now i'd say shes a HB9, the mutual friend text her and asked what she thought, she said he's really nice whats he said about me?? So i told the friend to pass on my number to her and HB9 said the same. She went on holiday for a week the following day but is now back and we have each others number via the mutual friend but havent really spoken since the group drink we went on, i didnt really get chance to speak to her on her own that day as we were all sat in a group. So now im wondering how do i open her and what do i say to her now shes back off holiday? I'd say shes interested if she told the friend to pass on her number but i dont want to come accross weird when we've only briefly met. Any ideas? |
|
| Author: | KristallNachte [ Wed Sep 16, 2009 6:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
just call her.... is it really that complicated? |
|
| Author: | appreciatepune [ Wed Sep 16, 2009 6:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
she wants you to call if she gave you her #....use it or lose it |
|
| Author: | mercer [ Wed Sep 16, 2009 6:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
I do realise that i have to call her! Thats not the problem, the problem is that ive never really spoken to her properly, only in a brief group conversation.....so i call her up and say what?? |
|
| Author: | KristallNachte [ Wed Sep 16, 2009 6:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
set up a day 2. no reason to really fluff on the phone |
|
| Author: | TheJ [ Wed Sep 16, 2009 6:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Quote: I do realise that i have to call her! Thats not the problem, the problem is that ive never really spoken to her properly, only in a brief group conversation.....so i call her up and say what??
Hey what's up. *Small talk*. Hey i'm doing *insert interesting thing you are about to do* later this afternoon and just thought you might like to try it out. Are you in?Or anything playfull...jsut try something. At least after that you'll have a better knowledge of what works or not. Don't be afraid to screw that one up because there will be thousand of other chances. |
|
| Author: | SRVisGod24 [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 6:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
Quote: Quote: I do realise that i have to call her! Thats not the problem, the problem is that ive never really spoken to her properly, only in a brief group conversation.....so i call her up and say what??
Hey what's up. *Small talk*. Hey i'm doing *insert interesting thing you are about to do* later this afternoon and just thought you might like to try it out. Are you in?Or anything playfull...jsut try something. At least after that you'll have a better knowledge of what works or not. Don't be afraid to screw that one up because there will be thousand of other chances. |
|
| Author: | Aermud [ Sat Sep 19, 2009 9:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I pray for you Brother |
Yeah, quite the story. I would have really gotten to know her as much as I could that night even if it was only briefly. You had an in, bro and I think you might have blown it by not showing confidence. Don't worry though there will be plenty more where that came from. As for calling her back... JUST CALL HER!!! Say hey whats up, you were awfully shy that night you didn't talk to me. Then she will say something like well you didn't talk to me, then you say I'm talking to you now, then start small talk. By small talk I mean banter with her, say that your mutual friend says your trouble, (she will know your mutual friend didnt say that and you're flirting with her) she will say something flirty back, its just in womens nature to flirt. Then guide the interaction to well I'll give you a second chance with me, don't blow it, then say hmmm I was actually going to the market right now, why don't you tag along. Take her to the market brother, I know it sounds lame, but it works, and you won't have to spend money on her. Good Luck Brother. |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|