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Author:  shaneo21 [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 7:26 pm ]
Post subject:  i lose college girls when they ask me this
i live in a huge college town. almost every girl in the club goes to college. when i do approach them and spark up a convo they always seem to ask me where i go 2 school. when i tell them that i don't they seem to look down on me and walk away. I'm not goin to lie and tell them i go 2 college. is there any way around this situation?
Author:  exxengaius [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 9:17 pm ]
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Find a way to DHV without answering the question like "Is this an interview?" "Lets talk about something more interesting.." or make a joke like "Oh I'm actually a professor at u of x"

Off the top of my head..

Exxen Gaius
Author:  shaneo21 [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 9:27 pm ]
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good idea. i'm gonna try that next time a ? like that comes up. thanks bro
Author:  Chillburg [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 9:47 pm ]
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you could also say you already finished last year because you were like, a fast learner ? i dont really know the english term for it but you know what i mean right, like you finished highschool at a younger than average age and you started college earlier. It's a DHV because it shows you're smart as fuck (if you dont look like a 'nerd') and you can just make up what major you did or whatever. and continue the conversation with her.

good luck
Author:  shaneo21 [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 10:18 pm ]
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yea, my friends were doin that. telling girls that they went to this school and that school. but, i'm afraid if i say i already graduated or sumthin and they aske me a ? about school i'd be fucked cuz, idk shit about college
Author:  Crowd [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 10:33 pm ]
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Don't lie about your college experience. Tell them that right now your taking some time to figure out just what in the hell it is that your wanting to do, and that you intend to go later. This shows that you have a general understanding of what college is for and that you might be really intelligent for taking that approach. However, the reason why this tends to be a blow out is because when you start going to school your ideal of success becomes defined by money, because its all around you in that setting. In fact, most of the people that I go to school with could care less about the education aspect of school, they are in it for the loot.
Author:  Chillburg [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 10:55 pm ]
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Don't lie about your college experience. Tell them that right now your taking some time to figure out just what in the hell it is that your wanting to do, and that you intend to go later.
I would strongly advise you not to say you're still figuring things out, this is a clear DLV because it makes you look unsure of your future. Neil Strauss makes it absolutely clear to show ambition and goals. you dont have to be succesfull, just be ambitious and have goals.
Author:  shaneo21 [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 11:49 pm ]
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exactly! thats why i don't wanna lie about my college expierence
Author:  Scott_Baio [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 12:13 am ]
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Damn this was definitely a good question... the same thing happens to me once in awhile. Sometimes it seems like the girls lose a bit of interest when i say im going to community college, especially if they're attending a university.
Author:  Scott_Baio [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 12:14 am ]
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Damn this was definitely a good question... the same thing happens to me once in awhile. Sometimes it seems like the girls lose a bit of interest when i say im going to community college, especially if they're attending a university.
Author:  Scott_Baio [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 12:14 am ]
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Damn this was definitely a good question... the same thing happens to me once in awhile. Sometimes it seems like the girls lose a bit of interest when i say im going to community college, especially if they're attending a university.
Author:  mike. [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 5:53 am ]
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your answer when they probably ask do you go to school probably is just a simple "no"

its like when you go into a job interview
you should always take something that sounds negative but show the positive sides in it

"no i dont go to school, im just not feeling it right now. Im interested in so many things that i just cant settle with one subject to study at the moment
ir something along those lines( at this point you can vibe off of maybe things your into and shes into) maybe follow up the statement with oh but you said you went to ______ what do you study there?
thats awesome what caused you to want to get into that field of study? blah blah blah(go into conversation)


best,
mike
Author:  xibuz [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 8:40 am ]
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Just saying you don't go to college, they're gonna wonder just what it is you do with your life. Girls will ask because they want to see that you are a stable person and know what you want in life.

Whats your job or what else do you do? Take that and make it sound like the most awesome thing ever.
Author:  Kalel [ Thu Sep 10, 2009 4:36 am ]
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They don't look down on you because you don't go to college. They look down on you because you feel bad that you don't go to college. They can sense that this is a sore spot for you and you are embarrassed by this fact. And this subtle reaction is what kills the attraction for you. If you are on some level ashamed of your life, a woman will pickup on that. So try to actively paint your life in a positive and passionate way.

My advice is not to focus on the fact that you aren't at school but rather on what you are doing instead. Talk up your jobs/hobbies and focus on how school would interfere with them. Almost make it seem like whatever it is that you do instead of school is better than going to college. If you really sell it with passion they will completely ignore the fact that you aren't in school.

Or you could talk about how you aren't in school but you thinking about going... as soon as you get your busy life sorted out. Make it seem like college is in your future, but you have more pressing matters at hand. Women will sometimes see past the way a guy is and see only his potential instead.
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