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| Author: | The_Mighty_Gonzo [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 6:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | HELP NEEDED!!!! |
I NEED HELP!! Girl from my school, she's a legit 8, but has the personality of a perfect 10. I first met her when we hooked up at a party about 5 months ago, and we've been great friends since then, my issue is that i'm still a virgin and she's far more experienced. This girl is killing my game, i broke up with my girlfriend on the weekend because of her, we were at a party, she was completely hammered and all over me, my gf saw her climb onto my lap, told me i needed to get my head straight, and we broke up. I need advice on how to move on from a SERIOUS one-itis, or advice on how i can get together with her and get over her that way. i know it's not going to work if we were properly together, so how can i move from just friends to friends with benefits? ANY help will be amazing, i need to sort this out by the weekend, as we're going to a party, and i want her to leave with me. |
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| Author: | Dangerboy [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 8:20 am ] |
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I wouldn't recommend trying the friends with benefits thing with a girl who you're good friends with. Things tend to get a bit awkward after friends hook up, especially if you're good friends. So there's no point in risking your friendship with her just for the sake of getting some. That's stupid. Rather keep her as a friend. You also then have the added bonuses of preselection and social proof. Having said that, the best way to get over your one-itis is to meet other girls. The more girls you have in your life, the less significant she'll become. This is even more true if you have a few of quality girls. The second part to getting over one-itis is to keep yourself busy. That helps keep your mind off her. So spend more time on hobbies, learn a new skill, focus more on your studies, hang out with friends and other girls more... The less idle time you have, the less you'll think about her and the quicker you'll get over her. |
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| Author: | The_Mighty_Gonzo [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 10:37 am ] |
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That makes a lot of sense man, thanks for the advice. i'll back off, get over her and just see how everything works out |
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