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| Author: | Magdiel [ Sat Sep 05, 2009 5:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Why Didnt ShE txt back? Dont know i did wrong Plz help? |
So i met this girl called emily and i was txting her for 2hours then she just doesnt txt back. Heres how everything went... So were txting just talkin about ourselfs and stuff like that. Im new to the school there and i told her about missing my old friends. She says, Aww dont worry youll make new friends. I tell her about the new friends that i have already made and the new people ive met. Then... I ask her if she wants to be my friend (as a joke). She takes a long time to answer and then replies, i thought i was already your friend I reply with, We were getting-to-know-each-other-friends. but now you can be my friend if you want to? She then replies with ofcourse silly. Then I say, AWSOME!!! were friends now hahahah. She then doesnt reply back. Did I freak her out or something? Or was it because we txted for 2 hours? idk and its driving me crazy. Next time im going to keep the convo short and end it 1st but can somebody tell me what i did wrong? |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sat Sep 05, 2009 8:28 am ] |
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Imagine you received a text that said "AWSOME!!! were friends now hahahah" What the hell would you respond with? Why would anyone send a reply to a text like that? |
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| Author: | Somerset [ Sat Sep 05, 2009 10:36 am ] |
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yeh I'm with chief here.....does seem that you're a bit too overexcited to be friends with her and thas weirded her out. |
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| Author: | Grape [ Sat Sep 05, 2009 2:45 pm ] |
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Focus on your models. If a natural was to be new at a school, what would he do? If David D was new to a school, what would he do? think like this, and act like this, things will be so much easier. |
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| Author: | Brendan [ Sat Sep 05, 2009 2:50 pm ] |
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dude don't stress. theres not much she could possibly reply with and she probably couldnt be bothered thinking of something to send back. |
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| Author: | JR* [ Sat Sep 05, 2009 2:56 pm ] |
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Just feel that i should add something about text game seeing as it hasn't really been addressed for you. The basic rules for text game are: +Never respond immediately, usually a 5-10 minute wait between texts is enough for her to feel anxious and therefore excited when you send one through. It's an emotional rollercoaster every message you send! +You control the interaction, you always want to be opening new threads, and as soon as she get's interested in a thread, dismiss it, if the conversation goes dry you can always bring this thread up again. +Never be the last one to message. You always have to make sure that anyone can answer your messages, there should be no excuse as to why she hasn't replied. +Never use your full 160 characters. Girls only use 20-40, why should you use any more then that, after all, she is chasing you! +Texts shouldn't be used for conversations, if you want that, wait until your in person or get her to call you. Texts are exclusive to witty banter to build attraction! +Your messages should always have some innuendo in them, sexual or something else. You're a fun, sexual guy, don't hide it. Take a chill pill bro, conversation just ran dry, you can't expect a river to run on and on forever, one day it's just got to close up. Next time you guys are messaging, view every thread you open as you digging another foot of what's blocking the river up. Good Luck! JR. |
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| Author: | Magdiel [ Sat Sep 05, 2009 4:11 pm ] |
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What should i say or do when i see her at school? and shes suppose to either call or txt me this weekend so i can help her with an assignment what should i say or how should i act if she does. O and by the way i was just doing everything as a joke i didnt know she would take it seriously. So what should i do when i see her? |
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Sat Sep 05, 2009 5:28 pm ] |
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act as if it never happened. There is no need to bring it up at all, and it changes nothing. |
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| Author: | Visionxxxxxx [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 8:19 am ] |
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surprised this hasnt been brought up....but there is a chance that you may have actually disqualified yourself quite well there, and her not replying COULD have been because she wasnt too happy about being 'just friends'. if there was already attraction there from her side, your msg might not have been as bad as you think. its a great 'push'....but maybe came across a bit strong with the 'AWESOME!!' part. also, dont text for 2 hrs mate... you have better things to do dont you. |
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| Author: | Magdiel [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 8:50 am ] |
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She does give me alot of iois yeah the awsome part might have been 2 much How do u think I should act or what shoul i say when i see her at school? |
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| Author: | Grape [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 3:57 pm ] |
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Quote: She does give me alot of iois yeah the awsome part might have been 2 much How do u think I should act or what shoul i say when i see her at school?
1. Don't act like something you're not. You'll fuck up your game.2. Don't worry about what to say. Just try to laugh and make jokes. Have fun with her. Make her your best friend while showing off some attractive traits and she'll be the best friend who falls in love with you. |
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| Author: | Sexcellent [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 11:47 pm ] |
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the text rule i learned from vin dicarlo and julian fox: send texts that ENCOURAGE but do not requre a response. the "AWESOME!!!" text did not encourage a response, so she did not respond. I wouldn't worry about it though, cause you didn't look like you were fishing for a response. when someone asks a question, or sends a text that requires a response... they will look needy. In that situation, if she doesn't respond, it will look even more needy. |
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| Author: | Gifted1ne [ Wed Sep 09, 2009 10:38 pm ] |
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Like Gambler said don't respond within 48 hrs. Girls are always busy so you have to think about that. Once you text put the phone away and go do what you were doing no point in sitting around watching the phone. If she doesn't text you anymore don't text her till 5 days later to show you have a actual life and rebuild everything from there. Girls are like buses miss one next 15 mins one coming from Gucci Mane lol. |
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| Author: | Magdiel [ Wed Sep 09, 2009 11:30 pm ] |
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thanks guys for the texting advise. Turns out i shouldnt have even been worried from the first place i saw her again tuesday and nothing bad even happened she still continues to send me iois and were even more cooler than before. |
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| Author: | ImNaShitFool [ Thu Sep 10, 2009 9:30 am ] |
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You didnt do nothing wrong, You just said something she didnt have a response for... You keep a convo going by being vauge, or asking a question... You just made a statement... And An extra excited one too.. You kinda lost your cool with that one... You should have said something semi mean but playfull when she said "i thought I was your friend" Then rebounded with something sweet... so she'll go "aww" Then Tell her YOU gotta go. 2 hrs is a long as convo anyway... Quit being hungry, one text aint gonna kill you. |
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