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| Author: | imtheman23 [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 7:13 am ] |
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So okay, the situation is Me and my friend sitting on the bus right? So we're just minding our business, and they come up to us flirting, they're like "we're not here to sit next to you" when we didn't say anything so I'm like "so we're not good enough" So we ask each others age and shit, and they tell us their age is 18 and I asked what college they go to and switched up their talk saying they're lying and say they're (14 or 15) The convo basically went, college, age, a story or two like Im like where do you chill at, blah blah they're like "Everywhere" blah blah, so our stop is coming so I'm like "put your phone number in my phone" and she does, and writes her name obviously. So I'm like "I'll hit you up sometime" and she rolls her eyes and is like ok, in a "weird way", I leaned in a few times so I had poor body language every once in a while while being smooth most of the time, I leaned in only to hear her more because it was really loud. Any tips, pointers, do things like rollign eyes matter at the end? Did I sound boring? I sounded pretty happy, cracked a joke or two and came off as a happy guy during the convo. |
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| Author: | SirKonstantine [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 7:27 am ] |
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No you sound boring. You were Trying for Rapport during the whole interaction. I have a feeling that when they got on the bus, they wanted some validation, so they opened you. You were there toys for that bus ride. You feel into there whole plan. When you asked for her number, she rolled her eyes meaning "Oh, what a sucker." Next time, Break Rapport. Go Direct. Stop choding. Quote: I sounded pretty happy, cracked a joke or two and came off as a happy guy during the convo.
Were you happy because you are truly a happy guy? or were you happy because your finally talking to a girl? (I think its the latter)
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| Author: | imtheman23 [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 7:31 am ] |
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basically, i was just a giant joke to them? Like, no chance she's down to chill even if she gave me the right number, I failed miserably, she was playing with her hair and nervous but I think she was feeling my friend and thought he was cute but I'm not sure, very little chance of her chilling right? Any tips in the future? And nah, I had good energy I think |
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| Author: | Alpha Destiny [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:14 am ] |
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My advice is "Don't count your chickens before they hatch." Give her a call, and if she is not into you, then you can easily tell. |
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| Author: | imtheman23 [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:17 am ] |
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how long would you wait to call? |
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:53 am ] |
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Whats wrong with the day after? |
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| Author: | imtheman23 [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 9:02 am ] |
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3 day rule, no? |
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 9:06 am ] |
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Well I'm not really an expert, but quite honestly it doesn't seem to make much of a difference. I'm sure someone who knows better will say something anyway. I prefer to use the 'Give me your e-mail' technique, before adding 'And while you're at it put your number too'. |
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| Author: | imtheman23 [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 9:07 am ] |
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do you think rolling the eyes meant what he said? more like "ha, your funny, thats gonna happen", or overlooking t hings? |
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 9:10 am ] |
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Its not the best response on the planet, but you don't know until you try. If she's clearly not interested on the phone then: NEXT!!! At the end of the day you met her on the bus, you're not going to see her again. |
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