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| Author: | henning [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 6:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Using PU after girl is NOT interested? |
Long story short, Ive been studying pua for a while. I have been on dating sites all over practicing the online dating thing. Listening to Mystery, Deangelo...etc..it works! However, I had a contact from a girl out of the blue on my myspace, sister of a coworker. We talked/emailed, but I did not use PU at all, the convo was so relaxed and natural I didnt really have a reason to, you know what I mean? It just went so well BEING ME with no tricks/routines. We met and went out a few times ON A FREINDSHIP BASIS only. Since she just wanted to be freinds, I really had no reason to the pua role. I was just being myself (or my old self..before learning pu) hanging with this girl. Turns out I think she found me a bit boring...and she know met another guy freind, who she claims is the best, makes her laugh..etc etc. I think she wanted to know more about me before deciding to date me or not, but I did NOT know that. She hasnt really talked to me since then. I IM her and its just a hello and little shit, it seems that this other guy has her attn (MAYBE A PU PRO! LMAO who knows....) Is it too late for me to implement pua on her, and will she notice the change? In other words should I try, or just keep moving on? |
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| Author: | TheJ [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 6:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Using PU after girl is NOT interested? |
You learnt from this one. NEXT Abundance not scarcity. You listened to DeAngelo right? Millions of women. Next. |
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| Author: | henning [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 6:16 pm ] |
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Yea. One of the many things I learned is to NOT get down about a girl, shes just one encounter. I mean Im not all sad, i actually feel good, and dont know why?lol. Maybe because Im starting to learn the swing of things and it will keep getting better and I will learn more. |
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| Author: | TheJ [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 6:50 pm ] |
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Quote: Yea. One of the many things I learned is to NOT get down about a girl, shes just one encounter. I mean Im not all sad, i actually feel good, and dont know why?lol. Maybe because Im starting to learn the swing of things and it will keep getting better and I will learn more.
Heck I remember being happy about the first approach I did. asked the number, she didn't give it.... and I was happy like a sailor at a strip joint. Why? Because It didn't affect me. Before reading all this stuff and getting in the 'pua' comunity I would of been devestated for months. I saw the change and liked it! |
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| Author: | henning [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 7:05 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Yea. One of the many things I learned is to NOT get down about a girl, shes just one encounter. I mean Im not all sad, i actually feel good, and dont know why?lol. Maybe because Im starting to learn the swing of things and it will keep getting better and I will learn more.
Heck I remember being happy about the first approach I did. asked the number, she didn't give it.... and I was happy like a sailor at a strip joint. Why? Because It didn't affect me. Before reading all this stuff and getting in the 'pua' comunity I would of been devestated for months. I saw the change and liked it! |
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| Author: | Overture [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 8:27 pm ] |
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I made really good connection with a girl with a boyfriend. Really started liking her actually. And i could tell she liked me. She just had that look on her face when i left "oh i wish i didnt have a boyfriend". Added her to facebook. Just ignores me. I guess she doesnt want me to invade her life and threaten her relationship with her boyfriend. Rejection still stings, hehe, but these things are positive even though it stings because you learn so much. I could have done three things differently that night, and i could have had her. Oh well, next time! |
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 8:38 pm ] |
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I remember chatting to a girl in a club when I was kind of starting out. It was obvious she liked me but I didn't know how to move forward. Saw her again the next week and met her boyfriend. Seems he was pretty in the dark about her attraction to me (she started kinoing me right in front of him!  ) and that was the first time I found out he existed!  Kind of regret not making the move the night I met her. Live and learn... |
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| Author: | Alpha Destiny [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:31 am ] |
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It is messed up, and you will not get her. Suck it up, and move on. There's more fish in the sea. If she already found a guy, then that means she lost the chemistry with you. |
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| Author: | rob811 [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 12:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Just friends category... |
Sounds like you were having a good time and you didnt show your sexual interest in her. Why? you didnt know she liked you. Well does that stop you? If you were realy interested it wouldnt stop you. I think its just feels like a missed oppurtunity to you. Did you realy miss anything though? I dont think so. |
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| Author: | BadolzoN [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 6:03 am ] |
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Didn't read the whole post 'cause I gtg but my advice is move on find another one, girls are like pieces of paper. If she is shit testing you call her out on her antagonistic behavior. Tell her "I eat little shits like you for breakfast" "Hi, my name is Eric, nice to meet you" |
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