I recall some guy writing to David DeAngelo and complaining that too many girls were becoming attracted to him. Now, I'm certainly not complaining here, but I'm getting girls revealing their emotions very early on.

After I've gone through the attraction and comfort stages. They're telling me that they're attracted to me. Which is great, but they're asking me if I'm attracted to them, or starting to test me on my stance on serious relationships. Like whether I think sex is important in a serious relationship or going through the list of questions about my past. I'm keeping it as light as I can using C&F and not being all wuss and declaring my interests too early. Although, I have to say that warning bells are going off when girls go like this, but in my experience they nearly all seem to at some point before seduction or straight after it.

But as anyone got any general advice for this area.

I learnt the harsh lesson of telling someone how I felt before, on a few ocassions and it never worked out, not once. I'm not going there again, but I don't want to make the mistake of her thinking I'm not interested. I'm using subcommunication, a lot of push-pull, confusing them, teasing. But not all girls are great at reading this especially where I'm living at present.

Should I take all those questions that they throw out their about how many gfs I've had, how many one nights I've had, my views on sex in a relationship etc. Because one girl asked me about all of it. I was about to run for the hills, but stayed and ploughed through. Was tough I can tell you.