few things i want to say.
last weekend talked to this hb7 and we just clicked couldint follow with #close, went back today to try again needed some jeans anyway, and she did have good taste as im wearing the shirts she picked out now
but she wasnt there so i felt a pang of self hatred at not goin for it last time and moved on.next shop
me:wow this is a wierd shop it feels like u try and keep people in on purpose.
hb: cant remember somin along the lines off smile hahha yea blah blah
me: where do you keep your jeans?
hb:there somehere points
me:help me pick i need some advice
helps me pick went tried them on didint like them
me: theyr awful didint like them!
hb: im sorry blah blah
me: recomend some good jean shops
she: place place place place whatever place
me: some like, too girly, u gotta do better than that sounds good sounds good.
me:as i turn to go hey listen whats ure number i need some fashion advice we can go for a coffee and u can help me pick some jeans.
her; aww im so sorry i have a boyfriend dont think it would be fair
everything said lean back lots of ec, smile. and relaxed manner from my side.
first my apporch and genneral game it was bollocks but its getting over the fear of closing today, that was the most important thing for me but learing along the way is the way forward rite !
ok this is where i need help what i said was rly stupid as had to improvise fast had made my first attempt at #number close fuk me if im giving up straight away but all i could come up is this. and what i wanted to say was: i dont necesseryly want to fuk u i dont even know u yet, i would have been happy with just hanging out only a coffeee coz i do need more female friends.
me:cmon its only a coffee dosent he trust you enough
?vry crapp all i could mutter as a response and that is so wrong on so many levels dont even want to talk about it hehe.
my question is this how to u transition from number close if she says she has a bf im not interested straight away even if its just a shit test i dont like it and if she rly has a bf i dont want to take another mans girl anyway, agains my rules. is there a way to establish a fine "lets just be friends" kinda of vibe on the spot or summin.. without seeming desperate or trying to hard to get in her pants cos rly i wasnt, not after the bf line anyway.
this dude was watching us and he had a "wtf ur wierdo" expression on his face!
didint have the head on me after getting burned down to ask him what his problem was as that would seem like me just being bitter after getting shot down. fuk me if im getting dragged down to that level.
normally dont phase me but since it was my first attempt at #close put me off making more attempts today ;/
im pretty sure she enjoyed the chat!!
dom
