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| Author: | wildrabbit [ Thu Aug 06, 2009 5:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Conceptual Difficulty |
Ok. I can claim I progressed from being an WBAFC to the AFC. Ive read Strauss' "The Game" but never had the opportunity to try it until about 2 months ago. I am not quite happy with what resulted. Please, please, reccomend me something. (This is the first time I am posting, so please inform me if I violate any of your etiquettes.) Field Report HB7 "proposed" (sort of) to me while I was negging an HB9 in their group during a party. It happened about an hour after my approach, and the girls sniffed the connection and left us to ourselves (me and HB7). Therefore, the HB9 was totally out of bounds for the night. I could not reject HB7's advances and go for a girl in the same group. (actually istarted liking the HB7 sometime later, but that doesnt change anything) Now this HB7 was a great date for 3 days but she suddenly ahd to catch a flight to her own country. Now I totally hung out with HB9. We even slept on the same bed during a camping night (she didnt have any qualms sharing the quilt with me but she just snuggled up on the other side, though ehr bum still touched). This made me sure she wasn't interested. Until the day I was supposed to leave, she kissed me on the lip and she said she'd miss me and didnt want me to leave. this surprised me as I had given up all hope on her. I take this as a really strong IOI. Im visiting her next month. I want to be a good pua and not the AFC I am right now. Openers, Negs, lip-kino etc wont matter here, as she knows me to be a pretty quiet person of few words.. and she's lip kissed me once already. So from this handicap IS THERE ANY WAY TO ESCAPE A POSSIBLE LJBF SCENARIO???? |
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| Author: | tweeby [ Thu Aug 06, 2009 6:14 pm ] |
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Ah fuck man. You sleep in the same bed and you don't make a move? She WANTED you to make a move. All you had to do was escalate. You need to start dictating the interaction. Get into a sexual state and flirt like hell. That's all you can do. Don't be afraid to show her that you want her. Caveman. |
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| Author: | wildrabbit [ Thu Aug 06, 2009 6:29 pm ] |
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How do I escalate in this situation? I was afraid to touch her, or her crying out and waking up everyone else. Quote:
You need to start dictating the interaction. Get into a sexual state and flirt like hell.
Can you tell me how do I dictate this interaction to my advantage?[/quote]
That's all you can do. Don't be afraid to show her that you want her. Caveman |
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| Author: | tweeby [ Thu Aug 06, 2009 6:38 pm ] |
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Look, there is no do 'xyz' and you get the girl. But there are a few guide lines. Sounds like you need work on your INNER game as well. All the difference between someone who gets nooky and someone who doesn't - is the ability to escalate and behave sexually. Like it is what you do ALL the time. However, you haven't been like that, so you're now on the back foot. You didn't make a move on her when you were camping. So she's thinking twice. Girls can be in a state of attraction for a brief period of time. It is absolutely essential that you pull the trigger well you have that opportunity. But she KISSED you so it was/is on. Quote: How do I escalate in this situation? I was afraid to touch her, or her crying out and waking up everyone else
Oh this made me fuckin laugh. Why are guys always afraid of being sexually aggressive with a girl. Why do you think sooo MANY girls date jerks. Be confident with your sexual state. Be unapologetic.Don't be afraid to touch her like she's some kinda fine china. She's not. She wants it just as much as you. It's all about the mindset. |
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