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| Author: | lamppost2009 [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:43 pm ] |
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I started reading PUA material about a year ago and it helped me. Girls became more attracted to me and a few developed crushes because I'm good-looking and seem confident. However, I never kissed any of these girls because on nights out in clubs if they approached me I was afraid of rejection so I would pretend I was too good for them and wouldn't engage them in conversation. As a result, lots of girls think im a snob and only meet 9s and 10s, because I would reject pretty much any girl, however good looking, because I knew if i tried to kiss them or flirt, people would realise im not all that cool. Now I really just need to kiss close. I'm desperate. Im smart, good looking and I can be funny. No sisters and an all-boys school meant i pretty much had no contact with girls and don't really know how to talk to them. That's not what I need help with, because PUA helped me with that, but I simply havent got any action and I need some soon, even just a kiss close. Guys, next time im out in a club i quite simply I have to kiss a girl. I dont want to seem too high value or any of that, in case i put the girl off, just tell em how to go really direct and get the kiss close. |
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| Author: | lamppost2009 [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:45 pm ] |
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So when I meet a girl that will do (my standards will have to drop here), do i just start kino'ing staright away and making the conversation sexual? A lot of guys around here just seem to try to put their arms around the girl straight away and it seems to work! its a sub-conscious thing on their behalf. Im not out to make friends, i just need a kiss-close its that simple. HELP! |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 10:18 pm ] |
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Drop your standards? Why? If girls see you as a man of high-value, GOOD! That's what you want. You don't need women viewing you as a spineless, wuss boy that will jump through hoops for a girls attention. I don't suggest you change anything except this fear you have of being rejected. Don't start kino'ing until she has shown some interest. You don't want to come across as a creepy, disparate guy that can't keep his hands to himself. If she responds to a little kino, escalate. If she responds, escalate again, etc. It's a cat and mouse game; just keep it playful if possible. You want her to be comfortable around you, keeping the situation fun and lighthearted will do just that. |
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| Author: | lamppost2009 [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 10:37 pm ] |
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Quote: Drop your standards? Why? If girls see you as a man of high-value, GOOD! That's what you want. You don't need women viewing you as a spineless, wuss boy that will jump through hoops for a girls attention. I don't suggest you change anything except this fear you have of being rejected.
drop my standards because I just need a kiss close asap and no time for messing around. once I have it under my belt my confidence should improve. Not that I will be starting out sarging average girls, I just won't be devoting my time to 8s 9s and 10s if it doesnt look likely. If I see a viable 6 or 7 I'll just get in there.Don't start kino'ing until she has shown some interest. You don't want to come across as a creepy, disparate guy that can't keep his hands to himself. If she responds to a little kino, escalate. If she responds, escalate again, etc. It's a cat and mouse game; just keep it playful if possible. You want her to be comfortable around you, keeping the situation fun and lighthearted will do just that. When you say escalate what do you mean? I think this is where my problems lie. |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 10:48 pm ] |
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drop my standards because I just need a kiss close asap and no time for messing around What's the hurry, do you have a train to catch? Take your time and game the 8's, 9's and 10's. Desperation will kill any attraction bro, girls can sense that sh*t a mile away. Look up 'escalation' in your PUA material, you should find paragraph after paragraph on this topic. |
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