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Author:  esotericshift [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 8:20 am ]
Post subject:  Kiss Close gone bad-PLEASE HELP
Ok heres the deal. This chick i have been talking to drops me off at my house and she gives me a hug and i smell her neck. Then I say Oh my god you smell so effing good Im trying so hard not to kiss you right now. She then says :Im not going to make out with you right now". Earlier in the night I stole her lip gloss from her.
After she said she wouldnt makeout with me I started walking to my front door.
and she said she wouldnt talk to me anymore if i didnt give it back. Then she said I could give her a kiss on the cheek. So I did. still not giving it back.Then she gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I then teased her with the lip gloss until she let me kiss her on the lips. I Kiss her then go inside and she leaves. About 30 min pass and i check my myspace and she has changed her status to "i can see right through you" Mood : annoyed. and takes me off her top 8. Then I make an dumb move and text her "Why are you annoyed? Wtf did I do? then she texts me back-"Did I say anything about you at all? Wtf?"
Then the next day I texted her "Did you know LIPS and KISS are typed the same way on a phone?. She then replys with "Um ok?" I then text her " I Love how soft your lips are. I cant wait to kiss them again. Her: No F****** Bueno. Who The hell do you think you are? Is there anyway possible to recover from or fix this?
Author:  DonPua [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 11:54 am ]
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I don't think that it is impossible. But it is going to be extremely difficult.

I am not an expert but to me this looks a lot like what Mystery defines as buyer's remourse. She kissed you but she wasn't ready for it and now she feels like a 'slut'. Mystery always says that you have to be an understanding person. Like, if a woman tells you not to kiss in a public place, than you should tell her "ok, I understand" and not kiss her. I think this also applied in this case. She said she wasn't going to make out with you, so you should have told her "OK, I understand." and try to kiss her on another day where she is sending out more signals that she wants to be kissed.

Also, why did you check myspace within 30 minutes ? Even worse, you text her within 30 minutes about it. That looks soooo needy. And as you know women don't like needy men. You shouldn't have cared about what she did in her myspace.

As for recovering ... very difficult. At the moment I can only come up with trying to make her jealous. I would put in myspace someting like "Tonight date with a complete sweety", status: happy. The next day: "Date was wonderful. She might be the one." status: extremely happy. The next day: "Kissed her for first time. Best kiss ever", status: extremely happy. While doing this, keep ignoring her. Don't talk to her, don't send her messages. Only reply in an unneedy way if she contacts you. I know this sounds evil but you know what ? These are girl tactics. Girls are constantly trying to make you jealous in order to win you over for them. I experienced this many times. My theory is that girls try to make a man jealous because they know that it works for them.
Author:  DirtyDreams [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 12:17 pm ]
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Holy fuck man. Stop using canned stuff like its magic. Last text message dialog was awful. But yes, you have a chance to recover this.

PHONE HER and say something like "Hey, I know I can sometimes be a little dick, so I just want to say you that Im sorry. Anyway, it would be nice to go out with you one more time, choice in your hands"

That is what I would do, you know man, you dont need to be a guy that does only things that this site recommends.

But I have used something like that, the girl said "No... I dont know...", I just said "Okay, anyway. Tell me if you chance your mind". She called me 2 days later and said that "Hey, I dont have anything to do today.. So would you like to come to do something with me?"

You never know.. But the thing is, that you got nothing to lose. She is just one girl :)

PS. I wouldnt use jealousy tactic like that.
Author:  esotericshift [ Fri Jul 31, 2009 4:36 am ]
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Guys mad props! Waewae I took your advice and it worked very well. We hung out the same night i called. We went to this place that I have lots of social proof at and it went fairly well. I am going to continue to talk to other girls as well. Its always good to have options.
Author:  justforfun [ Fri Jul 31, 2009 10:53 pm ]
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Guys mad props! Waewae I took your advice and it worked very well. We hung out the same night i called. We went to this place that I have lots of social proof at and it went fairly well. I am going to continue to talk to other girls as well. Its always good to have options.
umm. thats wat ur supposed to do....
dont fall in love.
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