If you are new to this stuff than make it a numbers game at first.
If you were going the 'online' game route...I know guys who message 40 girls every 3 days and end up with one new date almost every night of the week. They get rejected a lot because it's online and the rejection recover rate (RRR - cool
) is faster than the speed of light so I would suggest to so whatever YOU want.It seems to me that now what you want is to build a certain skill set. Whenever you see an opportunity to do something you have never done than take it. If you keep doing the same you will continue to get the same. Try something new at least 3 times before you chuck it.
There is major distance between you and her so the flirtatious vibe can be amped up very easily. She can say 'hey come over tonight!"....and you can say "yeah i will be over with wine and cheese in about 10 minutes"....and you both know that it is just harmless flirting yet it allows her to feel attractive in turn making you more attractive to her. People feel attractive when with attractive people. Use the space to flirt with her. I would suggest keeping things light play ful and silly. Don't make her think to much untill she knows that you make her feel good. Don't be afraid to go for the close. We talk about being non-needy yet, persistence always wins. Find your balance, every girl is different. She may need the validation...good luck