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Author:  theciscokid [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 1:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Flakey girl with boyfriend.
So last night I went out with some old friends of mine, including this one girl I had met once before, I'll call her Girl A. When I met Girl A for the first time she was giving me a lot of IOIs. However, this was before I got into PUA and I didn't how to react as well as I do now.

So, coming back to last night, turns out she's had a boyfriend for half a year, including when I first met her. Her boyfriend was there with us last night as well, he's good looking but he wasn't too sociable with the whole group. In retrospect I had a ot more social value as him.

Anyway, as the night went on she continued giving me IOI's. She was asking me a lot of questions, making eye contact, smiling a lot, whenever the conversation died she always restarted, and she kept touching me when telling me things, she kept trying to sit close to me whenever we sat down at a bar, and when she did she her leg was touching mine.

Needless to say there were times where I wanted to say "Go talk to your boyfriend, he looks lonely".

So my question is, is this girl just a flake? Is she trying to make her boyfriend jealous? Or is she really interested?

In one way I can't see her trying to make her boyfriend jealous because she was even giving me IOIs when we first met when her boyfriend wasn't there. In fact, when I had first met her we were having great conversation and she didn't even mention her boyfriend.

So I think she might either really be a flake or she's interest.

What should be my next move? If at all...
Author:  J_J_Okocha [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 3:20 pm ]
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find another girl who doesnt have a boyfriend. i dont get why so many people continue to go after the girl with the boyfriend as if there arent good looking girls out there without boyfriends.
Author:  NonStopReaper [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 4:29 pm ]
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she was definitly intrested in you because all the IoI's she gave you and the fact that she hide the fact she had a b/f from you. At that point she was willing to cheat on her b/f. Basicly you showed more vaule to her then her current b/f. Here lies the moral factor in this. Its not like she was a flake. all girls are flakey to an extent. Are you trying to pursue her? cause there will be drama down the road. "Is the juice worth the squeeze?"
Author:  theciscokid [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 5:38 pm ]
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Quote:
she was definitly intrested in you because all the IoI's she gave you and the fact that she hide the fact she had a b/f from you. At that point she was willing to cheat on her b/f. Basicly you showed more vaule to her then her current b/f. Here lies the moral factor in this. Its not like she was a flake. all girls are flakey to an extent. Are you trying to pursue her? cause there will be drama down the road. "Is the juice worth the squeeze?"
Well, "A man will only go as far as a woman lets him", right?

I'm thinking that I'll continue talking to her to see what happens but I'll keep the consequences in mind.

If something does happen I'll tell her to break up with her boyfriend or else...
I walk away :D
Author:  NonStopReaper [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 6:10 pm ]
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Keep us posted bro :D and good luck
Author:  soma56 [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 7:52 pm ]
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Um, dude. Let's see:

She sat close to you
She re-initiated conversations
She kept giving you eye contact
She kept touching

She's looking to jump the train from her boyfriend to you. Ask her out on her own, not as a date but something neutral. Be cool and confident. Have a don't give a fuck attitude. You'll soon find out what she wants. To me it sounds like she's bored and she wants some more excitement. Give it to her

Contact me. I'll give you some material that will help you out.

timtesty@gmail.com
Author:  Skankin [ Thu Jul 23, 2009 6:10 am ]
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Sounds to me like shes interested. I wouldnt say shes dating material because if she can do that to her current boyfriend she will do it to any boyfriend. But it might be fun. Personally i dont make it a point to go after the ones with boyfriends but alot of the decent girls are already in a relationship so i dont see why you should limit yourself especially if she shows interest. But i wont mess with anyone i knows girlfriend. So i still kinda have some morals.

Skankin
Author:  TheTruthPUA [ Thu Jul 23, 2009 7:32 am ]
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I would take his gurl obviously, he is doing something wrong if his gurl is closely engaged with another man ... I would chat her up again flirt with her, and if she is throwing all the signs at the end of the night I would say "hey you should come hang with me and my friends sometime let me get your number and get the number" ... from there text game her and fill out the situation with her boyfriend ... she might just need a tip for her to leave her boyfriend ...
Author:  theciscokid [ Fri Jul 24, 2009 1:02 pm ]
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Thanks guys, I'm definately going to try it.

If not just to see if I can get her, but to try some PUA on her.

...in the name of science, of course.
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