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Author:  tickle [ Tue Jul 21, 2009 4:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Newb with luxury problem NEED HELP!
I hope I'm posting this in the right section...

Oke this is what's up. Last weekend I kiss closed this girl.
It's the 3rd girl I ever kissed! However, I'm very social and really improved my game to a standard where I'm better than all the guys that don't know Pickup theory. Okay there are some naturals still better than me because they got more social proof. They got that over the years. Point is, I got some serious game going on now, thanks to this community and other sites.

Now I don't know If I want more from this girl or not. In fact at the moment I'm working on this girl she's HB10 and a national model. Potentially international when she loses some weight on her hips. Atleast that's what she told me.
I've been taking it slow with this girl, doing what mystery calls Sollid game.
The problem is, I'm doing 'ok' all options open but I'm not really blowing her off her socks.

So I got two girls, one I don't love and one I kinda have a crush on. The other girl is HB7 btw and shes sweet. Now it's been 3 days and I'm making progress with the HB10 but slowly. I feel like I need to make some decisions soon or I will end up with nothing. I really want to try this HB10, I feel confident but I just need some tips or some advice of any kind.

Things I could be able to exploit are;

- I bring the mail atleast one day a week at her house, she won't be there most of the times though.
- She gone for two weeks now to the city where she's doing some modelling. I got a close m8 just that just moved into the city there. I could try to stay over at his place for a couple of days to try and meet up with her while she's busy. She could probably really use someone. Or would that be freeky?
- One of her best gf's (HB10 aswell) is a good friend of mine, how can I use that?
- We live in the same town, she just moved into town, I could show her around but I think she already knows everything, cuz she lived here some years ago.
- She's willing to try almost anything to make it to a international supermodel. I got loads of knowledge on personal development. I already helped her a bit, should I do that more or calm down with helping her. I don't want to help too much too soon, logically.

I really need some good advice, please help my out !
Author:  Exerio [ Tue Jul 21, 2009 4:25 pm ]
Post subject: 
Heya there!

From what you are saying I believe you already have her phone number, with this you can build a lot of tension from her side.

Mehow got a classic example of this. "Hey, it's me. Talk to you later"

Now what this does is making her think that you will call, and the later you call that day the better. For example, send her a message around 12:00 containing something along those lines, then call her around 00:00 to talk with her.

If you manage to keep this up you will have her thinking about you a lot, which is a good thing. Just let her be on the trip outside of your town and hopefully when she gets back she will still be into you and you can continue gaming from there.

About the helping part of yours:
Help in a pick-up needs to be mutual. In other words, if you are constantly trying to help her you will fall into the friends-zone or even worse, the "psychologist" zone. And thrust me, you don't want that. Instead, make her work for your help. If she does something for you, then you can do something for her. If you let her know that she has to work for your attention you will not be likely to get into the friends-zone fast.

Hope this helps:)
- Exerio
Author:  tickle [ Tue Jul 21, 2009 5:40 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Heya there!

From what you are saying I believe you already have her phone number, with this you can build a lot of tension from her side.

Mehow got a classic example of this. "Hey, it's me. Talk to you later"

Now what this does is making her think that you will call, and the later you call that day the better. For example, send her a message around 12:00 containing something along those lines, then call her around 00:00 to talk with her.

If you manage to keep this up you will have her thinking about you a lot, which is a good thing. Just let her be on the trip outside of your town and hopefully when she gets back she will still be into you and you can continue gaming from there.

About the helping part of yours:
Help in a pick-up needs to be mutual. In other words, if you are constantly trying to help her you will fall into the friends-zone or even worse, the "psychologist" zone. And thrust me, you don't want that. Instead, make her work for your help. If she does something for you, then you can do something for her. If you let her know that she has to work for your attention you will not be likely to get into the friends-zone fast.

Hope this helps:)
- Exerio

Thanks alot man I really appreciate it.
I got her to help me first though, forgot to mention that.
But you're totally right, I need to avoid the friends zone.
The calling her thing is gold man I will deffo do that ;).
Cheers man! :)
Author:  SFL [ Tue Jul 21, 2009 6:05 pm ]
Post subject: 
Do what are the best for you brother.

If you want always SHB 10, go for it!

In my case i want HB´s 6,5 and UP. And i dont think about KC, because this happens. What i really want is FC!

Im new in this forum, but one thing i know dont threat yourself seriously!

After all this is for fun and have good times!!! Dont be a nerd of pua!
Author:  tickle [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 3:29 pm ]
Post subject: 
I agree man.

And I don't only go for HB10's. I said I just KC an HB7 ;).
I just want the challenge. So I learn faster... And HB10's look good on my CV lol :P
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