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| Author: | Liquid_Steel [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 2:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Called, Left a Message, No Call Back |
If you get a girl's number, then you call her, and leave a message. What do you do then? do you call back in a few days? Text her? Say "fuck it" and move on? I got 2 girls numbers in the same week (I'm happy about the progress I'm making) and neither of them answered their phones or called me back. One of the girls I was certain she was in to me. I was getting IOIs all over the place! What do I do? |
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| Author: | driberif [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 2:53 am ] |
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Sounds like your early on into learning the game. I would probably just leave it alone, you will learn how to develop enough value to a girl for her to respond don't worry brother. If you really think shes into you, set up the day two while your with her. You can gauge her for some sort of commitment there, kind of like if she blows it and gives you a yeah yeah we should do that sometime. Or if she pulls out her planner and pencils you in kinda deal. You will get it hang in there! Numbers are not the goal remember social value is the goal. |
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| Author: | Skankin [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 12:19 pm ] |
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I have gotten a couple phone numbers in the past with the same problem. Personally id shrudge it off and move on. I have three that are really memorable but this is your post so i wont steal your thunder or anything by getting into them. Also you gatta remember that other people have lives too. Sometimes they just dont have a good time to call you back and might never. Dont take it personally you were doing something right to get thier numbers to begin with id just try to build off of the success of the action and use the rest to learn from. Skankin |
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| Author: | soma56 [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 7:39 pm ] |
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Before even getting the number you have to set up a time bridge to give her a reason to see you again. Whether it’s best fucking bagels in town down from where you live or a live concert that you ‘have to show her’. Time bridging is the key otherwise you’ll get buyers remorse. Also, after getting any number don’t just leave. Always stick around a bit longer to show a genuine interest. As far as when – call the next fucking day if you want to. Don’t analyze what you’re going to say before hand – just say it. Don’t sound needy. Tell your doing something and make it seem like ‘I guess you can tag along’ Contact me. I'll give you some material that will help you out. timtesty@gmail.com |
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| Author: | rizkay [ Fri Jul 24, 2009 4:20 am ] |
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word. it's a fickle business....the hard thing for me has been drawing the line between good old fashioned persistence and futility. if they don't call you back, it's very rarely unintended - i have had this happen twice in the past 2 weeks. one was with a girl who actually approached me and i ultimately got her number. have to tell yourself there are more out there... |
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