PUA Forum :: How do you adjust your game when talking to chubby girls?

Don't use negs. Ever. Men and women are of equal value.

Do most of the normal techniques that work on hotties, work on the lesser hot ones?

Does negging about them being overweight backfire?

This is going to sound weird, but I actually prefer cute, but slightly chubby girls. Maybe I was born in the wrong century, I should of been around when it was considered desireable for a girl to have a big ass. But anyway.

Do most of the normal techniques that work on hotties, work on the lesser hot ones?

I know a lot of chubby girls have pretty screwed up egos and self esteem. So you have to look hard for a somwhat well balanced one.

Any advice? Does negging about them being overweight backfire?

Workaholic, what you posted there seems to me quite offensive towards the girl.

She is just a girl like everyone else, don't let their self-esteem get to you. It is nothing that you should worry about. Be polite and tease with things that you know won't get into her. Build some comfort with her and you'll see that she is just like every other girl.

About lights/salad/eat your food quickly.

I don't see how this will improve your chances? It seems to me they will rather demolish them. If a girl cares about being overweight she probably will order a salad, if she is uncomfortable with lights on she will probably tell you or at least give you pointers towards it. And lastly, eating your food quickly make you seem like greedy and un-mannered. Do it in a relaxed state as you normally do and if the girl doesn't accept that, then there is very little you can do. You can't pretend to be something your not.

- Exerio

Yeah, I've seen Workaholic posts around here and he's on the sarcastic side. Don't take him seriously on that.

Author:	PhillyAFC [ Sun Jul 19, 2009 10:51 pm ]
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This is going to sound weird, but I actually prefer cute, but slightly chubby girls. Maybe I was born in the wrong century, I should of been around when it was considered desireable for a girl to have a big ass. But anyway. Do most of the normal techniques that work on hotties, work on the lesser hot ones? I know a lot of chubby girls have pretty screwed up egos and self esteem. So you have to look hard for a somwhat well balanced one. Any advice? Does negging about them being overweight backfire?

Author:	Exerio [ Sun Jul 19, 2009 11:12 pm ]
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Never say to yourself that you are different from the rest just by liking different girls. As a fact everyone do it. I, for example like girls that I find cute and not the models you usually hear about. And yes, game works on all girls. Just suit it to your own personality. If you go blind-folded with canned material it just make the learning process longer and get girls interested in the material and not you. Rather understand the concepts and try to figure out how you want to be:) - Exerio

Author:	Jav [ Sun Jul 19, 2009 11:33 pm ]
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Don't use negs. Ever. Men and women are of equal value.

Author:	jurupa [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 9:56 am ]
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Quote: Don't use negs. Ever. Men and women are of equal value. Only in fantasy land.

Author:	jurupa [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 9:59 am ]
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Quote: Do most of the normal techniques that work on hotties, work on the lesser hot ones? Yes. Quote: Any advice? Ya don't treat or game them different just because they have some fat on their bones. They are really no different than any other girl out there. Quote: Does negging about them being overweight backfire? Walk lightly on this. You can tease/neg a girl on her weight, but it must be framed correctly and said correctly and timed correctly. Else it will backfire on you.

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Author:	Liquid_Steel [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 12:26 pm ]
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Nothing weird at all. I actually prefer cute and pretty, rather than those model girls too. also, I wouldn't call myself a chubby chaser by any means, but I like girls to have some fat. I have no idea how you would phrase a neg of that type. I would steer clear.

Author:	Mike Lowrey [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 12:52 pm ]
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I'd avoid weight related stuff like the plague. No matter how you say it, pretty much guarenteed a girl will take it the wrong way.

Author:	Workaholic [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 1:03 pm ]
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Quote: This is going to sound weird, but I actually prefer cute, but slightly chubby girls. Maybe I was born in the wrong century, I should of been around when it was considered desireable for a girl to have a big ass. But anyway. Do most of the normal techniques that work on hotties, work on the lesser hot ones? I know a lot of chubby girls have pretty screwed up egos and self esteem. So you have to look hard for a somwhat well balanced one. Any advice? Does negging about them being overweight backfire? 1) Don't pay for dinner 2) Alcohol consumption increases 3) Lights off 4) No cowgirl/ K Sutra limited 5) Eat your food quickly 6) Schedule salad and opt for walking to destinations on date

Author:	Exerio [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 1:40 pm ]
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Workaholic, what you posted there seems to me quite offensive towards the girl. She is just a girl like everyone else, don't let their self-esteem get to you. It is nothing that you should worry about. Be polite and tease with things that you know won't get into her. Build some comfort with her and you'll see that she is just like every other girl. About lights/salad/eat your food quickly. I don't see how this will improve your chances? It seems to me they will rather demolish them. If a girl cares about being overweight she probably will order a salad, if she is uncomfortable with lights on she will probably tell you or at least give you pointers towards it. And lastly, eating your food quickly make you seem like greedy and un-mannered. Do it in a relaxed state as you normally do and if the girl doesn't accept that, then there is very little you can do. You can't pretend to be something your not. - Exerio

Author:	Mike Lowrey [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 1:47 pm ]
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Quote: Workaholic, what you posted there seems to me quite offensive towards the girl. She is just a girl like everyone else, don't let their self-esteem get to you. It is nothing that you should worry about. Be polite and tease with things that you know won't get into her. Build some comfort with her and you'll see that she is just like every other girl. About lights/salad/eat your food quickly. I don't see how this will improve your chances? It seems to me they will rather demolish them. If a girl cares about being overweight she probably will order a salad, if she is uncomfortable with lights on she will probably tell you or at least give you pointers towards it. And lastly, eating your food quickly make you seem like greedy and un-mannered. Do it in a relaxed state as you normally do and if the girl doesn't accept that, then there is very little you can do. You can't pretend to be something your not. - Exerio Possibly it was a joke?

Author:	Exerio [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 2:26 pm ]
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Of course it may be a joke, but the people here are asking questions because they don't know what to do. You can imagine this scenario: Random guy: What do you mean by punishing a girl if she don't comply? - I'd say you should insult her. Random guy: did as you told him Girl: punches random guy in the face. The essence of my point is that this is a "Newbie Questions" sub-forum. People come here to learn because they have no idea. And I feel it is wrong to guide someone behind the light. - Exerio

Author:	TheJ [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 3:34 pm ]
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Yeah, I've seen Workaholic posts around here and he's on the sarcastic side. Don't take him seriously on that. That being said, I think I would go direct with 'curvier' girls. Unless you think she gets plenty of attention from other guys. Tease, bust balls and CF but I would stay clear of negs.

Author:	Workaholic [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 9:07 pm ]
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Quote: Yeah, I've seen Workaholic posts around here and he's on the sarcastic side. Don't take him seriously on that. Yes! It was a joke! I just like to test people to see how mature they are in situations. I do tend to offer advice if not bored. Okay I know you are not looking for obese girls, you displayed that in your post. However as most people have discussed certain things will not work on a real women (not the size 4, bullemic model who has not had a proper meal since Christmas dinner.) Things such as negs, and womens bitch shields will be lowered on women that are probably not hit on as much by guys that rely on a womans aesthetic qualities (I am not insulting your target it is just some guys just pick their target on looks alone and you seem like you want more which is good.) Negs won't work as much as negs are great for disarming women who think that you are going to hit on them. I have noticed from experience curvy girls (8's. with big arse, big tits, and cute face, some form of love handles) tend to be quite insecure in terms of looks in the bedroom and in general so make sure you build comfort, and take things slow and make them feel comfortable.

Author:	rhythm1 [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 9:22 pm ]
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i knew it was joke like, and it made me laugh. I find even thin girls take weight negs quite badly, id avoid weight negs with any type of girl.

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Author:	TheTruthPUA [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 10:11 pm ]
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There is nothing with liking thick women, it is pretty common these days ... I think if anything they would be alot easier just a bit less self esteem and confidence ... I would probably go light on the negs ... and just be natural with it ...